"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FR : Smoke Break Girl

christz

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I'm always in the learning process so let me cover really quick a field report and tell me how I coulda swung this in my favor.

I got on break from work walk outside to have a cigarette see some people I usually smoke with and they offer me a seat, I notice an hot blonde maybe hb8 who is also sitting down. Never seen her before so whatever.

I start talking to the older woman I know from previous smoke breaks ask her how work is and such and then the blonde completely interjects.

"is this like an employee smoking area?"

Immediately I take this as a sign she wants me to talk to her.. so I get to work.

Me "yeah, actually its against he rules for you to sit here and smoke with us"
Her "oh really, well this was the only place I could go"
Me "its ok we'll let you slide on this one"
Her "oh thanks!" *laughing*

I ask her about where she works, she tells me where she lives she tells me she asked where I work. I paused for a little before answering and told her. then I continue the sarge.

Me "you know smoking is bad for you.."
Her *laughing* "really? oh I thought this was my daily vitamin intake for the day!"
Me *laughing* "so what's your name?"
Her "Danielle"

I noticed she didn't ask mine.. which keyed me in that maybe she wasn't as interested as I was.. BUT I threw it in there anyway.

Me "mines christz"

She gets done with her cig and goes well you don't have anything good for me where you work.. so I guess I won't be seeing you later it was good meeting you though!

annnnnnnnnnnnd I'm out.. the guy listening to me was impressed to say the least but laughed that I couldn't make a power move to get her number. My question is Could I have gotten this chicks number? I didn't have any buying signs like hand in hair.. kino or anything mind you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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you'll never know if u dont ask. So i guess u'll never know.
 
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