"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
FR : Shezzler Macks The Honeyz Big-Style
- Thread starter Adam See
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
check on the net.
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most picture phones will either have infrared or bluetooth capabilities. Depending on which one you have, you'll have to buy a USB infrared reader or a USB bluetooth reader. These plug into the USB ports on your PC, and then you use the infrared transfer thing on your phone to link them. Or, if your phone has the proper jack, you can buy a cable that plugs into the USB port on your comp and into the jack on your phone, and just copy the pictures right over. check on the net, heaps on people talking about it
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PeoplesChamp
Don Juan
Nice vibes...you tool. How can someone "sound" like they are on an illicit drug over the internet. How about dropping the displaced resentment?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
animal crackers
Senior Don Juan
I've never been to UK but I think you have a limiting belief about street pickup. I've seen video's of guys who go around somewhere called leishester square and PU all the time.
Street PU is also different depending on if it's day or night, and if you're in a fun area or a deserted alley...know what I mean?
Great Job, tell us how your #s pan out.
Hound_of_Love
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Nah, I'm with the Shezzler on this one. Street pickups would be considered weird here, so you'd have to have some smooth chat ready and be ready for a fair bit of abuse.
Leicester Square is in the middle of London and generally consists of about 85% foreigners, so it isn't a great example of a British street for PU purposes.