"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
FR : Shezzler Macks The Honeyz Big-Style
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
check on the net.
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most picture phones will either have infrared or bluetooth capabilities. Depending on which one you have, you'll have to buy a USB infrared reader or a USB bluetooth reader. These plug into the USB ports on your PC, and then you use the infrared transfer thing on your phone to link them. Or, if your phone has the proper jack, you can buy a cable that plugs into the USB port on your comp and into the jack on your phone, and just copy the pictures right over. check on the net, heaps on people talking about it
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PeoplesChamp
Don Juan
Nice vibes...you tool. How can someone "sound" like they are on an illicit drug over the internet. How about dropping the displaced resentment?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
animal crackers
Senior Don Juan
I've never been to UK but I think you have a limiting belief about street pickup. I've seen video's of guys who go around somewhere called leishester square and PU all the time.
Street PU is also different depending on if it's day or night, and if you're in a fun area or a deserted alley...know what I mean?
Great Job, tell us how your #s pan out.
Hound_of_Love
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Nah, I'm with the Shezzler on this one. Street pickups would be considered weird here, so you'd have to have some smooth chat ready and be ready for a fair bit of abuse.
Leicester Square is in the middle of London and generally consists of about 85% foreigners, so it isn't a great example of a British street for PU purposes.