undesputable
Master Don Juan
good going sargaholic
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
FR: Shezz and G-Man Invade Student Night...
- Thread starter undesputable
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
animal crackers
Senior Don Juan
That was a sexy FR man.
That sucks that the HB5 rejected you. You should probably go home and cry now.
That sucks that the HB5 rejected you. You should probably go home and cry now.
h2o
Banned
nice one 
seroph
Don Juan
cheers
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
aftershock
Master Don Juan
Quality FR, as usual.
Do you ever use any of the numbers afterwards?
Do you ever use any of the numbers afterwards?
isotope
Senior Don Juan
what type of dates do you take them on?
like, how do you go about impressing the club-type girls?
like, how do you go about impressing the club-type girls?
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Charlie_aus
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Nice post Shezz.
Bad luck dude on the HB5....
Havent seen ya on MSn for a while
-C
Bad luck dude on the HB5....
Havent seen ya on MSn for a while
-C