"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR: She begged for sex, I didn't give it to her

lYlasTer

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Met a girl a while back, she txted me asking if I wanted to eat with her. Now this girl is like a 7.5, but I'm just not attracted to her. I was bored and thought to myself, why not? I just wanted to be friends with her, and maybe see if she had any friends I could hook up with.

We meet up at the restaurant and we're talking. First thing she asks if I'm seeing anyone, and then she asks me what I like in girls. I can sense that she wants me at this point, so I'm being real vague about my answers. Then out of nowhere she just asks "When was the last time you had sex?" I asked her to repeat that again because I thought I was just hearing things. She then starts talking real dirty to me. Asks me about what porn do I like to watch, etc. So by the end of lunch I'm getting pretty turned on and thought to myself, **** I might as well practice.

We go to the mall and get something. I'm driving back to the restaurant and ask if she wants to go back to my place. I take her to my room and we start talking. Again she talks dirty, asks me what's the naughtiest thing I've done. I told her getting roadhead and getting head in a movie theater. She told me about how she gave her ex-bf some roadhead, blah blah.

So time to get physical. I was just giving her a tour of my room and "stumbled" on some massage oil. I told her I'm really good with massages and asked if she wanted one. I did her lower back and told her to take off her shirt. Massaged her back, took off her bra. She asked me if I get turned on from giving massages. I said yea, and asks her if she's getting turned on. She said yea, so I start touching her boobs from under her. I kiss her, and then we take it from there.

I got some head from her. Then she asks if I have a condom. I really didn't wanna **** her so I told her "It's too early." She's about to finish me and begs me to **** her just a little. I told her no. She finishes me off, I take her back.

So wrap up.

She was good, but I just couldn't get into it because I had no feelings or attraction for her. I barely kissed her or did anything to her. it was more like me laying there and she did me. I've gone to 3rd base with plenty of girls, but only had sex with my ex-gf. As AFC as it sounds, I only want to have sex with girls I love. Anybody feel this way?

Right now I'm feeling kinda empty. I've been confused for a while as to what I want, but now I think I want a LTR with a girl I love. Getting physical with a girl and not feeling anything just feelings me feeling emptiness. Anyone read the game? It's like the part where Style gets a HB in the bathroom but he couldn't get it up, but he does his GF lisa 3x in one night.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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twotyme

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Same here man. Tired of the ons and all that stuff. Just not into it. I guess I'm just one of the few guys who wants more then just sex.
 

IsiMan84

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I had that mentality when I entered college, but I think it had to do with going to a Catholic high school. They sure do love to play that guilt card.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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belividere

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To be honest it sounds like you lead her on and acted like a woman. Touch me hear and say that and then oops sorry I dont want to follow through with it. Theres nothing wrong with wanting to hook up with girls if you actually have feelings but if you do this to enough girls that you dont have feelings for than you are going to wind up with a bunch of shiat talking stalkers.

Figure out what you want and than act accordingly. She may have begged for sex but you played along the whole time too. Next time just end the date if you dont like the girl and find someone that you click with.
 

So pimp its scary

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Dude are you gay??

Or was this chick just so fugly that you didn't want more than head??

Cause other than that there is really no excuse to not have plowed that b!tch...
 

IsiMan84

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Yea I was thinking about that. If you consider her a HB7.5 (and this is on your own scale) then why would you not find her attractive? A 7.5 means you believe she is above average. Just about any guy would do a girl that he thinks is a 7.5. It's basically an 8. That part doesn't make sense to me. There's got to be something else.
 
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