"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FR: She begged for sex, I didn't give it to her

lYlasTer

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Met a girl a while back, she txted me asking if I wanted to eat with her. Now this girl is like a 7.5, but I'm just not attracted to her. I was bored and thought to myself, why not? I just wanted to be friends with her, and maybe see if she had any friends I could hook up with.

We meet up at the restaurant and we're talking. First thing she asks if I'm seeing anyone, and then she asks me what I like in girls. I can sense that she wants me at this point, so I'm being real vague about my answers. Then out of nowhere she just asks "When was the last time you had sex?" I asked her to repeat that again because I thought I was just hearing things. She then starts talking real dirty to me. Asks me about what porn do I like to watch, etc. So by the end of lunch I'm getting pretty turned on and thought to myself, **** I might as well practice.

We go to the mall and get something. I'm driving back to the restaurant and ask if she wants to go back to my place. I take her to my room and we start talking. Again she talks dirty, asks me what's the naughtiest thing I've done. I told her getting roadhead and getting head in a movie theater. She told me about how she gave her ex-bf some roadhead, blah blah.

So time to get physical. I was just giving her a tour of my room and "stumbled" on some massage oil. I told her I'm really good with massages and asked if she wanted one. I did her lower back and told her to take off her shirt. Massaged her back, took off her bra. She asked me if I get turned on from giving massages. I said yea, and asks her if she's getting turned on. She said yea, so I start touching her boobs from under her. I kiss her, and then we take it from there.

I got some head from her. Then she asks if I have a condom. I really didn't wanna **** her so I told her "It's too early." She's about to finish me and begs me to **** her just a little. I told her no. She finishes me off, I take her back.

So wrap up.

She was good, but I just couldn't get into it because I had no feelings or attraction for her. I barely kissed her or did anything to her. it was more like me laying there and she did me. I've gone to 3rd base with plenty of girls, but only had sex with my ex-gf. As AFC as it sounds, I only want to have sex with girls I love. Anybody feel this way?

Right now I'm feeling kinda empty. I've been confused for a while as to what I want, but now I think I want a LTR with a girl I love. Getting physical with a girl and not feeling anything just feelings me feeling emptiness. Anyone read the game? It's like the part where Style gets a HB in the bathroom but he couldn't get it up, but he does his GF lisa 3x in one night.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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twotyme

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Same here man. Tired of the ons and all that stuff. Just not into it. I guess I'm just one of the few guys who wants more then just sex.
 

IsiMan84

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I had that mentality when I entered college, but I think it had to do with going to a Catholic high school. They sure do love to play that guilt card.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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belividere

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To be honest it sounds like you lead her on and acted like a woman. Touch me hear and say that and then oops sorry I dont want to follow through with it. Theres nothing wrong with wanting to hook up with girls if you actually have feelings but if you do this to enough girls that you dont have feelings for than you are going to wind up with a bunch of shiat talking stalkers.

Figure out what you want and than act accordingly. She may have begged for sex but you played along the whole time too. Next time just end the date if you dont like the girl and find someone that you click with.
 

So pimp its scary

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Dude are you gay??

Or was this chick just so fugly that you didn't want more than head??

Cause other than that there is really no excuse to not have plowed that b!tch...
 

IsiMan84

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Yea I was thinking about that. If you consider her a HB7.5 (and this is on your own scale) then why would you not find her attractive? A 7.5 means you believe she is above average. Just about any guy would do a girl that he thinks is a 7.5. It's basically an 8. That part doesn't make sense to me. There's got to be something else.
 
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