"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR: Sets I did today.

ElStud

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Well yeah, as with everyday I approached some girls at school, here's how it went. These aren't all the interactions, just the ones that I thought were actually worth mentioning, like this one group of girls I approached who were basically trying their best to blow me out, despite me trying to have fun. And now I give you, the approaches!

Approach #1
I'm in Senior Lounge and I start talking to this Heather girl. I open the set asking her to do a hive five and she does it, but I say "That was okay but you have to do it harder" and then I hive five the guys there to show her how it's done. Blah blah, we vibe and stuff, stuff happens. At one point I say she looks like a naughty girl and me and the group of guys talked around that. Eventually, I say that I need to give her a nickname and one of the other guys says something like "Heathbar" and I'm like "Ah, so everytime I see you I'll think of chocolate". At one point we talk about music, blah blah blah, she laughs and yeah. But yeah, to summarize the set, that's what happened and it ends with me the bell ringing and me saying "See ya Heather".
Pretty good set, she gave eye contact, she laughed and she was interested.

Approach #2
So in Science I approach this girl named Lauren. Here's how it went, note these aren't word for word though...

Me: So what are you doing this weekend?
Lauren: I'm going to Cedar Point.
Me: Ah, Cedar Point that's cool.

And eventually I go...

Me: Yeah, I can see it now, you and me would go up on one of those high rides and it when it comes down, you would throw up on me.

And she basically laughs and says "No".

So eventually, to put the convo in summary we eventually vibe, with her telling me how she does tennis and me telling her that I do wrestling. And then she starts to get interested in the wrestling topic saying "Yeah, wrestling is a hard sport". Blah, blah, we vibe on that. Eventually she asks about this ear disease that wrestlers get and this other girl comes into the set talking about how some of the wrestlers she's dated had it. Then I tell her how me and the other wrestlers were talking about this curse where the best senior wrestler always get hurt and then I tell her about a really good senior who got hurt last year. And yeah, we basically vibed with that and I even kinoed her a few times and she didn't resist. So yeah, bell rings, she tells me to "Have a nice weekend" and I say "You too" and the set ends.
Very good convo here, should've closed but I didn't. I don't know man, I just got the feeling that she wouldn't of been interested enough to give me the number. Good set though.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Seems more like simple conversations rather than you picking them up.

The word vibe doesn't change that, be more assertive! Just food for thought.
 

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Thanks for the comments guys.
 

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HandyAndy said:
I notice you use alot of the same lines
ie, the throw up on rides one..
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Anyway, I could use some more advice on this guys.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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don't use lines, and instead take a genuine interest in getting to know a girl and her life story

u'd be surprpised, but girls FALL IN LOVE with guys who show genuine interest in them
 
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