"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ElStud

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Well yeah, as with everyday I approached some girls at school, here's how it went. These aren't all the interactions, just the ones that I thought were actually worth mentioning, like this one group of girls I approached who were basically trying their best to blow me out, despite me trying to have fun. And now I give you, the approaches!

Approach #1
I'm in Senior Lounge and I start talking to this Heather girl. I open the set asking her to do a hive five and she does it, but I say "That was okay but you have to do it harder" and then I hive five the guys there to show her how it's done. Blah blah, we vibe and stuff, stuff happens. At one point I say she looks like a naughty girl and me and the group of guys talked around that. Eventually, I say that I need to give her a nickname and one of the other guys says something like "Heathbar" and I'm like "Ah, so everytime I see you I'll think of chocolate". At one point we talk about music, blah blah blah, she laughs and yeah. But yeah, to summarize the set, that's what happened and it ends with me the bell ringing and me saying "See ya Heather".
Pretty good set, she gave eye contact, she laughed and she was interested.

Approach #2
So in Science I approach this girl named Lauren. Here's how it went, note these aren't word for word though...

Me: So what are you doing this weekend?
Lauren: I'm going to Cedar Point.
Me: Ah, Cedar Point that's cool.

And eventually I go...

Me: Yeah, I can see it now, you and me would go up on one of those high rides and it when it comes down, you would throw up on me.

And she basically laughs and says "No".

So eventually, to put the convo in summary we eventually vibe, with her telling me how she does tennis and me telling her that I do wrestling. And then she starts to get interested in the wrestling topic saying "Yeah, wrestling is a hard sport". Blah, blah, we vibe on that. Eventually she asks about this ear disease that wrestlers get and this other girl comes into the set talking about how some of the wrestlers she's dated had it. Then I tell her how me and the other wrestlers were talking about this curse where the best senior wrestler always get hurt and then I tell her about a really good senior who got hurt last year. And yeah, we basically vibed with that and I even kinoed her a few times and she didn't resist. So yeah, bell rings, she tells me to "Have a nice weekend" and I say "You too" and the set ends.
Very good convo here, should've closed but I didn't. I don't know man, I just got the feeling that she wouldn't of been interested enough to give me the number. Good set though.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Seems more like simple conversations rather than you picking them up.

The word vibe doesn't change that, be more assertive! Just food for thought.
 

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Thanks for the comments guys.
 

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HandyAndy said:
I notice you use alot of the same lines
ie, the throw up on rides one..
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Anyway, I could use some more advice on this guys.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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don't use lines, and instead take a genuine interest in getting to know a girl and her life story

u'd be surprpised, but girls FALL IN LOVE with guys who show genuine interest in them
 
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