"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well yeah, as with everyday I approached some girls at school, here's how it went. These aren't all the interactions, just the ones that I thought were actually worth mentioning, like this one group of girls I approached who were basically trying their best to blow me out, despite me trying to have fun. And now I give you, the approaches!

Approach #1
I'm in Senior Lounge and I start talking to this Heather girl. I open the set asking her to do a hive five and she does it, but I say "That was okay but you have to do it harder" and then I hive five the guys there to show her how it's done. Blah blah, we vibe and stuff, stuff happens. At one point I say she looks like a naughty girl and me and the group of guys talked around that. Eventually, I say that I need to give her a nickname and one of the other guys says something like "Heathbar" and I'm like "Ah, so everytime I see you I'll think of chocolate". At one point we talk about music, blah blah blah, she laughs and yeah. But yeah, to summarize the set, that's what happened and it ends with me the bell ringing and me saying "See ya Heather".
Pretty good set, she gave eye contact, she laughed and she was interested.

Approach #2
So in Science I approach this girl named Lauren. Here's how it went, note these aren't word for word though...

Me: So what are you doing this weekend?
Lauren: I'm going to Cedar Point.
Me: Ah, Cedar Point that's cool.

And eventually I go...

Me: Yeah, I can see it now, you and me would go up on one of those high rides and it when it comes down, you would throw up on me.

And she basically laughs and says "No".

So eventually, to put the convo in summary we eventually vibe, with her telling me how she does tennis and me telling her that I do wrestling. And then she starts to get interested in the wrestling topic saying "Yeah, wrestling is a hard sport". Blah, blah, we vibe on that. Eventually she asks about this ear disease that wrestlers get and this other girl comes into the set talking about how some of the wrestlers she's dated had it. Then I tell her how me and the other wrestlers were talking about this curse where the best senior wrestler always get hurt and then I tell her about a really good senior who got hurt last year. And yeah, we basically vibed with that and I even kinoed her a few times and she didn't resist. So yeah, bell rings, she tells me to "Have a nice weekend" and I say "You too" and the set ends.
Very good convo here, should've closed but I didn't. I don't know man, I just got the feeling that she wouldn't of been interested enough to give me the number. Good set though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Seems more like simple conversations rather than you picking them up.

The word vibe doesn't change that, be more assertive! Just food for thought.
 

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Thanks for the comments guys.
 

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HandyAndy said:
I notice you use alot of the same lines
ie, the throw up on rides one..
...

Anyway, I could use some more advice on this guys.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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don't use lines, and instead take a genuine interest in getting to know a girl and her life story

u'd be surprpised, but girls FALL IN LOVE with guys who show genuine interest in them
 
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