"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FR: School Approach-ish

sandman6991

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I was in the copy room doing nothing (I'm an office assistant) when this hot girl walked in with a teacher to make some copies

Teacher: Just DON'T touch the copier, whatever you do!
HB: Okay

Then, the teacher leaves, leaving me and HB alone

HB: Hey!
Me: Hey! Better stay away from that copier!
HB: Haha! I know, I can't touch it!
HB: I'm gonna sit down *grabs a seat next to me*
HB: So, are you having fun with football?
Me: Yeah, I'm having a great time. You coming to the game tonight?
HB: Yes! I'm so excited!
*Copier stops for a second*
HB: I think it's done!
Me: Don't touch it now!

She gets up, but then it starts again

Me: Dang, what'd you do to that thing?
HB: Haha, I don't know!
Me: Ya know, if this thing keeps acting like that...I'm gonna let you take the fall and tell everyone that you broke it.
HB: Haha, I'm not touching it!

The copier finally gets done

HB: I think it's done...
Me: Go and find out!

HB picks up the copies and starts to leave

HB: It's done, and I still haven't touched it! I'll cya later
Me: Cya!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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War Against Betaism

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Agreed with Slick, next time close. Should have said something like "You were pretty interesting, we should talk again some time," and hit it off from there.
 
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ElStud

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Yeah, that's what I'm saying. The only way it could've been a cold approach was if he was wearing a football jersey or something and she was instantly attracted. But most likely she knew him already.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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sandman6991

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I met her last year at a dance...got her number there...but I had no game at all then...and failed miserably...I did have on my football shirt since it was a gameday...or she could have just heard that I was playing football this year...I hadn't talked to her at ALL since January...and I was surprised she said anything to me
 
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