"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FR:Rescued chick from AFC....but didn't follow through

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I found that this tactic could work, but it requires a DJ's eye. I was at the club last night, had a hard time approaching because I didn't seem to receive any eye contact. Anyways, at closing time, everyone was leaving the club and walking out the exits. I was walking towards the door with my wing and he notices this chick standing in the middle of the floor talking with this older guy. You could easily tell that this guy was boring the f--k out of her, and she was just trying to leave with her friends. I mean this guy didn't know when to quit talking, and you could read her body language like a book. For some reason this lady was just too nice to brush him off. Now I took a good look at him and realized he was no threat to me, so what did I do?

I just hopped right in and interrupted the whole boring conversation. I gently put both of my hands on her shoulders and said, "Hello Stephanie!, how are you?" I just made up some stupid name and pretended like I new her. All the while I rotated her 180 degrees from the guy, and began walking with her towards the exit. I then just looked her in the eye with a smile and said "Your welcome!" She came back with a suprised grin and said "Thanks a lot!!"

This is where I f--ked it up though. Instead of asking her for her real name and starting up a convo, I walked away and pretended what I just did was like no big deal. She ended up leaving with her friends. Perfect opportunity blown, she was about a HB8...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SMOOOOOTH move Jiro! Now you know it works, carry through on it!:D
 
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yOU HAVE THE BALLS TO DO THAT BUT NOT ASK FOR HER NAME AND NUMBER???:confused:
 

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There is good and bad here

Good - Acted as DJ, moved in, took action (although did not follow through)

Bad - Played Captain Save-a-hoe, which I hate. WHy did you feel the need to rescue some hoe you did not even know? You might have gotten pounded for some girl who doesn't even know you from a piece of sh1t...

From woman's perspective:

"Tonight an AFC was boring me to death, then another AFC saved me from him and did not even ask for my number or anything. What is wrong with men these days"

Sorry for the tough love, bro.

Dietzcoi
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah I agree, it was lame that I didn't continue on with her....I have no excuse. The whole thing wasn't planned, it was more spontaneous, and I think that I surprised myself. I don't screw with other people's game like that, but this was so obvious. Like I said, the other guy was no threat, no chance in getting pounded.

dietzcoi - You're right, she probably ended up seeing it that way. But, If I would have stuck with it, who knows.

I felt good about it afterwards, it was something that I wouldn't normally do.
 
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Originally posted by jiro77
I found that this tactic could work, but it requires a DJ's eye.
What kind of DJ?! I'm into trance myself and house/dance.... I would think that ears are more important to a DJ than his eyes though except to spot the hotties when he's spinning vinyl on the decks.
 
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