FR: Repressed Narcissistic Chick

[BackInTheGame78]

Went on a date a few days ago with this chick I met online. Seemed cool enough. A few years older than me, worked a lot, good job, etc...

Met up around 8pm, she looked OK, a little big in the hips and waist for me, but not fat...I just really prefer in shape or athletic chicks, not I guess "Average" chicks...

So we get to talking and within 15 minutes this chick has completely turned me off to the point I wouldn't bang her if she begged me to. Main issues were as follows:

1) Personality is somewhat uptight and very...professional-like...in my experiences these are the worst lays possible...the chicks that lay there like a dead fish or really suck in bed.

2) She tells me about how she is really good friends with an "ex" who she lived with for 7 years but "never" had sex with. So I'm like how the hell were you dating a guy but never having sex. And she is like, "Well, I don't want to say never, it may have happened 2 or 3 times." So I'm like "In 7 years?" And she said "Yeah". So I tell here there is no possible way that I would ever date a woman for 7 years and never have sex with her.

And she is like "Oh, you shouldn't say that it might happen sometime...he had an issue that he had to get psychological help with because he put me on a pedestal and thought I was a goddess and he didn't want to "defile" me like that. Those aren't my words that's what his psychologist told me."

So I sat there and I looked at her for a few seconds. Then I said "Well...one of two things are true: Either he is gay, or you really suck in bed. So, which one is it?" Then I just leaned back and looked at her.

She's like "OMG!! I can't believe you said that!!! He isn't gay, he hasn't had any issues with any of his other girlfriends just me...he has a girlfriend now and has no issues with her."

"Well, I guess we know what the issue was then." I respond as I start chuckling...and she says "I'm not even going to respond to that. That's not a topic of discussion for a first date."

So I said "Why not? I have to spend time getting to know you better before I find out you suck in bed and never want to see you again? No thanks, I'd rather find out now so I don't waste my time. That's the ultimate turnoff for me."

Then she tells me that I'm a total @sshole and how she doesn't have to put up with this and she can just leave. So I tell her she's right she can leave...feel free. Then she looks at me for about 10 seconds and doesn't say anything and says "So you are saying you want me to leave??"

Now I'm starting to get pissed with the whole situation because I've already determined this b!tch is completely full of herself and would be a crappy lay...not to mention that she said she thinks she looks "fabulous" when I asked her something about if she felt out of place at a gym...and then followed it up by saying how she used to take her boyfriends supplements like Creatine and Protein Powder and dump them in the toilet.

So I tell her "I don't really give a ****. You are a stuck up b!tch who thinks she is God's gift to men, but is too dumb to realize she went out with a guy for 7 years who thought she sucked in bed and was getting laid on the side. Not my type of women, sorry." So she sat there in stunned silence, didn't say anything...I finally say "Tell ya what...you stay, I'll leave." And got up and left without another word.

I get home to a text saying that was the meanest and most hurtful thing any guy has ever said to her and she said no wonder why I'm still single. Lol...never replied...haven't gotten any other texts and doubt I will.

Yeah, probably could have handled it better, but her dumping the supplements was the last straw...I was seeing red after that.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Jesus, this woman.. :crackup:

You had me rolling this whole post bro. But really, how big was she? Height / weight as well man, I need to get a better picture.

She looked OK...maybe a 6.5...she wasn't fat, maybe 5' 7", 140 lbs...just not think or athletic like I like them...cute face...

 

[guru1000]

Good for you. Feels damn good, doesn't it? Live life your way

 

[thatfeel]

Should've just pumped and dumped. I can empathize with your position but I just feel like you got too emotionally invested in some dumb broad you don't even know. All it did was leave you hanging high and dry. How do you know she wasnt lying?

You can continue to play your game while simply silently disagreeing with her.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

This is some Hank Moody s**t

You met her online, I think that says enough about this chick. Typical POF type who thinks she's a goddess.

As for the boyfriend of seven years holding her on a giant pedastal, and them barely fvcking. I actually believe that. There are so many desperate men who act like the low quality chick they're with are perfect. So that fear of "deflowering" doesn't sound too farfetched given the current mindset of AFCs.

You got under her skin. I'm not saying that you should have pissed her off, but she couldn't get the joke that you made. If you held in your anger, she would have shot you down to inflate her ego, and you still would have went home pissed off.

 

[Scars]

Damn.. you found yourself a winner.

 

[GS750]

Funny thing is, after all that she felt the need to text you about what a jerk you are. Entitled chick just had to have the last word. She probably blocked you right after sending it.

 

[Serenity]

I believe that you actually did her a favor, she won't realize it now but somewhere down the road she will. You were honest, that serves everyone. She deserved it.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

You are with a dude for 7 years and you never fvcked????? What kind of sh!t is that?? And you think you're a goddess? GTFO. And even worse, you're throwing away your boyfriend's supplements? That he paid for? That is almost literally money down the toilet. I don't care how hot you are, I'd be second guessing myself if you showed up in my bed with your legs spread. That is a load of sh!t. I mean why the hell would you do those things? What goes on in your mind to make you want to do that?