"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There's this HB in my classe, a 8.0 in my scale. I've already talked to her a few times, and so, today, I decided to check if she was OK with going out with me.

So, I checked her leaving English class, and went to her.

Me: Hey, your Maths teacher is missing, right?
Her: Yes. I hope she don't comes.
Me: Ehe... I don't really care, you know. I'm going home now, so it's only bad for you. (said this in a playful way, of course).

After this, and some fluff talk, she went away, and I realized I panicked and didn't ask her out.
I was like "Sh!t... I'm such a wuss..."

Anyways, a couple of minutes later, I saw her, and went up to her.

Me: So, guess you're going home too, since you're here.
Her: Yeah... My father is coming to pick me up.
Me: I see... Hey, listen, I got to go, but tomorrow night I'm going to the movies. Wanna come?
Her: I'm sorry. I won't be at home tomorrow because (apologised in a fluffy way)... Anyways, thanks.
Me: Ah, okay, it's fine. Well, bye.
Her: Bye.

Well... I got rejected, and my convo skills sucked, but anyways, I asked her out.

Btw, going to the movies is a sucky option, but it was the only available at the moment. Eh... lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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rejection is good, shoots down your fears.

now to overcritisize everything you did...check to see if she was okay with going out with me? thats the root of why you got rejected...your additude. you did good telling her you were going and if she wanted to come along (although its best to use a phrase like come along/tag along) but you just said the movies...in some cities (including mine) movies are a place where the losers hangout and smoke cigs. a better line would be "i'm gonna go see a movie tommorow night...wanna tag along?"

however, you asked, she said no, you got rejected, your still alive. sarge on.
 
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dannowillbookem said:
rejection is good, shoots down your fears.

now to overcritisize everything you did...check to see if she was okay with going out with me? thats the root of why you got rejected...your additude. you did good telling her you were going and if she wanted to come along (although its best to use a phrase like come along/tag along) but you just said the movies...in some cities (including mine) movies are a place where the losers hangout and smoke cigs. a better line would be "i'm gonna go see a movie tommorow night...wanna tag along?"

however, you asked, she said no, you got rejected, your still alive. sarge on.
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Actually, I speak portuguese, so what I said can't really relate 100% to what I wrote.
Well, as you said, I'm alive, and ready to another one. :rockon:
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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congrats :)
 
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Toushi said:
There's this HB in my classe, a 8.0 in my scale. I've already talked to her a few times, and so, today, I decided to check if she was OK with going out with me.

So, I checked her leaving English class, and went to her.

Me: Hey, your Maths teacher is missing, right?
Her: Yes. I hope she don't comes.
Me: Ehe... I don't really care, you know. I'm going home now, so it's only bad for you. (said this in a playful way, of course).

After this, and some fluff talk, she went away, and I realized I panicked and didn't ask her out.
I was like "Sh!t... I'm such a wuss..."

Anyways, a couple of minutes later, I saw her, and went up to her.

Me: So, guess you're going home too, since you're here.
Her: Yeah... My father is coming to pick me up.
Me: I see... Hey, listen, I got to go, but tomorrow night I'm going to the movies. Wanna come?
Her: I'm sorry. I won't be at home tomorrow because (apologised in a fluffy way)... Anyways, thanks.
Me: Ah, okay, it's fine. Well, bye.
Her: Bye.

Well... I got rejected, and my convo skills sucked, but anyways, I asked her out.

Btw, going to the movies is a sucky option, but it was the only available at the moment. Eh... lol.
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HAHAHAHAHAHA

That's NOT a Rejection!

HAHAHAHAHA

Go read the DJ bible!
 
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RedRose said:
HAHAHAHAHAHA

That's NOT a Rejection!

HAHAHAHAHA

Go read the DJ bible!
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Not a rejection?
Lol, can you tell me why?
 
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