"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There's this HB in my classe, a 8.0 in my scale. I've already talked to her a few times, and so, today, I decided to check if she was OK with going out with me.

So, I checked her leaving English class, and went to her.

Me: Hey, your Maths teacher is missing, right?
Her: Yes. I hope she don't comes.
Me: Ehe... I don't really care, you know. I'm going home now, so it's only bad for you. (said this in a playful way, of course).

After this, and some fluff talk, she went away, and I realized I panicked and didn't ask her out.
I was like "Sh!t... I'm such a wuss..."

Anyways, a couple of minutes later, I saw her, and went up to her.

Me: So, guess you're going home too, since you're here.
Her: Yeah... My father is coming to pick me up.
Me: I see... Hey, listen, I got to go, but tomorrow night I'm going to the movies. Wanna come?
Her: I'm sorry. I won't be at home tomorrow because (apologised in a fluffy way)... Anyways, thanks.
Me: Ah, okay, it's fine. Well, bye.
Her: Bye.

Well... I got rejected, and my convo skills sucked, but anyways, I asked her out.

Btw, going to the movies is a sucky option, but it was the only available at the moment. Eh... lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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rejection is good, shoots down your fears.

now to overcritisize everything you did...check to see if she was okay with going out with me? thats the root of why you got rejected...your additude. you did good telling her you were going and if she wanted to come along (although its best to use a phrase like come along/tag along) but you just said the movies...in some cities (including mine) movies are a place where the losers hangout and smoke cigs. a better line would be "i'm gonna go see a movie tommorow night...wanna tag along?"

however, you asked, she said no, you got rejected, your still alive. sarge on.
 
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dannowillbookem said:
rejection is good, shoots down your fears.

now to overcritisize everything you did...check to see if she was okay with going out with me? thats the root of why you got rejected...your additude. you did good telling her you were going and if she wanted to come along (although its best to use a phrase like come along/tag along) but you just said the movies...in some cities (including mine) movies are a place where the losers hangout and smoke cigs. a better line would be "i'm gonna go see a movie tommorow night...wanna tag along?"

however, you asked, she said no, you got rejected, your still alive. sarge on.
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Actually, I speak portuguese, so what I said can't really relate 100% to what I wrote.
Well, as you said, I'm alive, and ready to another one. :rockon:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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congrats :)
 
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Toushi said:
There's this HB in my classe, a 8.0 in my scale. I've already talked to her a few times, and so, today, I decided to check if she was OK with going out with me.

So, I checked her leaving English class, and went to her.

Me: Hey, your Maths teacher is missing, right?
Her: Yes. I hope she don't comes.
Me: Ehe... I don't really care, you know. I'm going home now, so it's only bad for you. (said this in a playful way, of course).

After this, and some fluff talk, she went away, and I realized I panicked and didn't ask her out.
I was like "Sh!t... I'm such a wuss..."

Anyways, a couple of minutes later, I saw her, and went up to her.

Me: So, guess you're going home too, since you're here.
Her: Yeah... My father is coming to pick me up.
Me: I see... Hey, listen, I got to go, but tomorrow night I'm going to the movies. Wanna come?
Her: I'm sorry. I won't be at home tomorrow because (apologised in a fluffy way)... Anyways, thanks.
Me: Ah, okay, it's fine. Well, bye.
Her: Bye.

Well... I got rejected, and my convo skills sucked, but anyways, I asked her out.

Btw, going to the movies is a sucky option, but it was the only available at the moment. Eh... lol.
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HAHAHAHAHAHA

That's NOT a Rejection!

HAHAHAHAHA

Go read the DJ bible!
 
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RedRose said:
HAHAHAHAHAHA

That's NOT a Rejection!

HAHAHAHAHA

Go read the DJ bible!
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Not a rejection?
Lol, can you tell me why?
 
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