Okay, so tonight was prom. Overall it was fun and okay, not really much happened. At the beggining, I basically sat with my friends and ate. After that, there was the dancing, but I really didn't dance that much and just talked to people. That was basically all of prom for me. Sometimes I'd go in there and dance, but I basically talked to people and talked to my friends. Later, I did a slow dance with my friends date and later grinded with her, but that was pretty much all the action I got all night. So later, I ride with my friends because apparently they were going to a party. Then we went out to eat, but like idiots, they decide to change plans and just go to this dudes house and chill(Had they actually gone to a party, I'd be there now). WTF? We could've gone to a party and got laid and you just want to chill at someone's house? That's bull. Then I couldn't go to the schools afterparty because it was too late and the doors were locked. So yeah, that was my night.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
FR: Prom.
- Thread starter ElStud
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Actually it is. It is a report of what happened in the field, which in this case was prom. It's the same as writing a field report about what happened at a club. You're not going to write about every single interaction. But yes, it is, a "field" report.krazyboy99 said:that's not a field report
Hahahahahahathat's not a field report
Watever happened to the crazy elstud who would sarge anything that didn't have a pen1s? Who never let 'reputation' or 'creepiness' get in the way of opening girls? Who wouldn't ever let his friends get in the way of his quest of puszy. The guy who would get interest from all the ladies!
That guy was hilarious!
SilverSonnet
Senior Don Juan
Technically speaking, I believe that a field report includes actually getting a number or f-close, or k-close etc. It needs to have a desired outcome. Ah well..
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SilverSonnet
Senior Don Juan
lol, I'll post when I damn well please. And I'll speak my mind. And people DO care, It's a Discussion Forum after all. Post when you have some maturity. That's my personal opinion, and when I begin to date, and go clubbing, I wont post what I DIDN'T do, I'll post what I did do.
Peace.
Peace.
Blah blah blah. Like I said when you want to post something helpful or useful, do so. If you don't want to refrain from posting. No one cares for your attitude. By posting "off-topic" stuff such as your incorrect opinion on what a field report is, you are spamming.SilverSonnet said:lol, I'll post when I damn well please. And I'll speak my mind. And people DO care, It's a Discussion Forum after all. Post when you have some maturity. That's my personal opinion, and when I begin to date, and go clubbing, I wont post what I DIDN'T do, I'll post what I did do.
Peace.
Come on guys. Take it easy.
Hit us up with another field report elstud. You must have some parties coming up after prom (is prom at the end of the year? Or do I just have no idea about the American school schedule).
Or, what went wrong at the prom? How could you have fixed it? Maybe get some new friends or something, lol
Hit us up with another field report elstud. You must have some parties coming up after prom (is prom at the end of the year? Or do I just have no idea about the American school schedule).
Or, what went wrong at the prom? How could you have fixed it? Maybe get some new friends or something, lol
TheBaconator
Senior Don Juan
Didn't you say you bought two tickets to your prom and just couldn't get a date? What a waste of money.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Srsly...wtfm8krazyboy99 said:that's not a field report
In Motion
Senior Don Juan
Soooo, basically.... Aboslutely nothing happened?ElStud said:Okay, so tonight was prom. Overall it was fun and okay, not really much happened. At the beggining, I basically sat with my friends and ate. After that, there was the dancing, but I really didn't dance that much and just talked to people. That was basically all of prom for me. Sometimes I'd go in there and dance, but I basically talked to people and talked to my friends. Later, I did a slow dance with my friends date and later grinded with her, but that was pretty much all the action I got all night. So later, I ride with my friends because apparently they were going to a party. Then we went out to eat, but like idiots, they decide to change plans and just go to this dudes house and chill(Had they actually gone to a party, I'd be there now). WTF? We could've gone to a party and got laid and you just want to chill at someone's house? That's bull. Then I couldn't go to the schools afterparty because it was too late and the doors were locked. So yeah, that was my night.
If every guy on this forum were to post a "FR" everytime they go out and buy some milk or get the newspaper this forum would be a mess. If you are going to do this at least be a bit more detailed.
Elstud im going to ask you something. You posted this so called "field report" and what did you expect us to tell you? I mean seriously, there is absolutely nothing to say about this, did you expect us to give you advice or something? What a pointless thread. Next time you post a thread ask yourself if advice can be given beforehand.
Eh El Stud, If your friends did not want to go to the after party you should have just gone yourself. What you should have done was while you were at Prom ask other people from your class what there plans were for after the dance, get some digits from them and hit up the parties.
SilverSonnet
Senior Don Juan
I'm not arguing with you, I'm stating a fact. There it is. Now, you can sit there and try to dispute with me in vain. I'm not listening any more. Your arguing with a 14 year old kid, jeez. And, believe it or not, I'm right. And so thinks everyone else. There's nothing to REPORT.
Peace.
Peace.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thats one of the reasons Im not interested in going to prom and hanging out with my date and chodey friends.
You cant even go anywhere to fvck, the logistic are too messed up.
my prom is in one month I rather save that 200$
You cant even go anywhere to fvck, the logistic are too messed up.
my prom is in one month I rather save that 200$