Okay, so tonight was prom. Overall it was fun and okay, not really much happened. At the beggining, I basically sat with my friends and ate. After that, there was the dancing, but I really didn't dance that much and just talked to people. That was basically all of prom for me. Sometimes I'd go in there and dance, but I basically talked to people and talked to my friends. Later, I did a slow dance with my friends date and later grinded with her, but that was pretty much all the action I got all night. So later, I ride with my friends because apparently they were going to a party. Then we went out to eat, but like idiots, they decide to change plans and just go to this dudes house and chill(Had they actually gone to a party, I'd be there now). WTF? We could've gone to a party and got laid and you just want to chill at someone's house? That's bull. Then I couldn't go to the schools afterparty because it was too late and the doors were locked. So yeah, that was my night.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
FR: Prom.
- Thread starter ElStud
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Actually it is. It is a report of what happened in the field, which in this case was prom. It's the same as writing a field report about what happened at a club. You're not going to write about every single interaction. But yes, it is, a "field" report.krazyboy99 said:that's not a field report
Hahahahahahathat's not a field report
Watever happened to the crazy elstud who would sarge anything that didn't have a pen1s? Who never let 'reputation' or 'creepiness' get in the way of opening girls? Who wouldn't ever let his friends get in the way of his quest of puszy. The guy who would get interest from all the ladies!
That guy was hilarious!
SilverSonnet
Senior Don Juan
Technically speaking, I believe that a field report includes actually getting a number or f-close, or k-close etc. It needs to have a desired outcome. Ah well..
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SilverSonnet
Senior Don Juan
lol, I'll post when I damn well please. And I'll speak my mind. And people DO care, It's a Discussion Forum after all. Post when you have some maturity. That's my personal opinion, and when I begin to date, and go clubbing, I wont post what I DIDN'T do, I'll post what I did do.
Peace.
Peace.
Blah blah blah. Like I said when you want to post something helpful or useful, do so. If you don't want to refrain from posting. No one cares for your attitude. By posting "off-topic" stuff such as your incorrect opinion on what a field report is, you are spamming.SilverSonnet said:lol, I'll post when I damn well please. And I'll speak my mind. And people DO care, It's a Discussion Forum after all. Post when you have some maturity. That's my personal opinion, and when I begin to date, and go clubbing, I wont post what I DIDN'T do, I'll post what I did do.
Peace.
Come on guys. Take it easy.
Hit us up with another field report elstud. You must have some parties coming up after prom (is prom at the end of the year? Or do I just have no idea about the American school schedule).
Or, what went wrong at the prom? How could you have fixed it? Maybe get some new friends or something, lol
Hit us up with another field report elstud. You must have some parties coming up after prom (is prom at the end of the year? Or do I just have no idea about the American school schedule).
Or, what went wrong at the prom? How could you have fixed it? Maybe get some new friends or something, lol
TheBaconator
Senior Don Juan
Didn't you say you bought two tickets to your prom and just couldn't get a date? What a waste of money.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Srsly...wtfm8krazyboy99 said:that's not a field report
In Motion
Senior Don Juan
Soooo, basically.... Aboslutely nothing happened?ElStud said:Okay, so tonight was prom. Overall it was fun and okay, not really much happened. At the beggining, I basically sat with my friends and ate. After that, there was the dancing, but I really didn't dance that much and just talked to people. That was basically all of prom for me. Sometimes I'd go in there and dance, but I basically talked to people and talked to my friends. Later, I did a slow dance with my friends date and later grinded with her, but that was pretty much all the action I got all night. So later, I ride with my friends because apparently they were going to a party. Then we went out to eat, but like idiots, they decide to change plans and just go to this dudes house and chill(Had they actually gone to a party, I'd be there now). WTF? We could've gone to a party and got laid and you just want to chill at someone's house? That's bull. Then I couldn't go to the schools afterparty because it was too late and the doors were locked. So yeah, that was my night.
If every guy on this forum were to post a "FR" everytime they go out and buy some milk or get the newspaper this forum would be a mess. If you are going to do this at least be a bit more detailed.
Elstud im going to ask you something. You posted this so called "field report" and what did you expect us to tell you? I mean seriously, there is absolutely nothing to say about this, did you expect us to give you advice or something? What a pointless thread. Next time you post a thread ask yourself if advice can be given beforehand.
Eh El Stud, If your friends did not want to go to the after party you should have just gone yourself. What you should have done was while you were at Prom ask other people from your class what there plans were for after the dance, get some digits from them and hit up the parties.
SilverSonnet
Senior Don Juan
I'm not arguing with you, I'm stating a fact. There it is. Now, you can sit there and try to dispute with me in vain. I'm not listening any more. Your arguing with a 14 year old kid, jeez. And, believe it or not, I'm right. And so thinks everyone else. There's nothing to REPORT.
Peace.
Peace.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thats one of the reasons Im not interested in going to prom and hanging out with my date and chodey friends.
You cant even go anywhere to fvck, the logistic are too messed up.
my prom is in one month I rather save that 200$
You cant even go anywhere to fvck, the logistic are too messed up.
my prom is in one month I rather save that 200$