"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FR : Pretty textbook (sic) stuff :)

lebRambo

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Hey guys,

My sticking point seems to be neediness during the process up until the lay (see my ongoing DR with HB21st), and I really gotta get this sorted out. Hence, I tend to react not quite what I should be doing (ie spinning plates).

So I busted out a couple of days ago, and decide that I am going to game a girl for sh*ts and giggles.

I spot HBCutie at the computer labs at uni. Too easy. HBCutie and I have had some convo before, mainly during the times when I wasnt looking to game her. She's a cool girl, a little bigger than I like but she makes up for it by being super cute and nice face, a$$ and tits. all around, about a 6.5-7.

I walk in, bust on her for being a total nerd (she is, which makes her even cuter to me). She works at electronics boutique, for christs sake! :)

At this point in my DJ training, I no longer tend to have routines memorised or run anything not natural, its all natural, inner game. I make ****y/funny jokes, I bust on her a little and just have a good time. I use my standard "I gotta head off now, but we should hang out sometime!" line. She's receptive, we trade numbers, pretty textbook stuff. Then she's all excited and keeps talking and won't let me leave. haha!

A big key to this is that I perceive my value as far superior to hers, and just KNEW that I could have her if i wanted her. This, contrary to what you might expect, makes me a little saddened, since the rush and adrenaline wasnt there. It was clinical, easy and done quickly. I'm in a bit of a slump, so I will lay her if i can.

I message her, we set up coffee for friday morning.


will update as this advances.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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danielzxc

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I use my standard "I gotta head off now, but we should hang out sometime!" line. She's receptive, we trade numbers, pretty textbook stuff. Then she's all excited and keeps talking and won't let me leave. haha!
And what did you say to her in Lebosmartassese? "Hey! Read my lips: I...gotta...head...off...now"? :)

The best ones are when you are feeling confident. Confidence is the key quality here. Then if they're 8s, 9s or even fkkn 10s it doesn't matter.

I message her, we set up coffee for friday morning.
Again with the mornings this cvnt! [Note to non-australians: that line is not offensive in the aussie dialect]

Here you are saying youre in a slump and you wanna lay her and so whaddya do? Initiate a meeting at a time and a place that is as about least conducive to say day lay as you can get -- where the hell do you think you're gonna shag her at 11:00am? Man, this is like being in Canberra and wanting -- badly -- to get to Sydney but starting off walking towards Melbourne. Instead of suggesting a get-together at a time and a place where sex can easily follow, you're making it as hard for yourself as you can. It's almost like you wisht the date DIDN'T lead to sex.
 

lebRambo

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haha, its the only time i have available man, my week is fvcking packed. I won't lay this girl on the first date. I just won't, im sure of that. So its no loss.
 
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