"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR : Pretty textbook (sic) stuff :)

lebRambo

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Hey guys,

My sticking point seems to be neediness during the process up until the lay (see my ongoing DR with HB21st), and I really gotta get this sorted out. Hence, I tend to react not quite what I should be doing (ie spinning plates).

So I busted out a couple of days ago, and decide that I am going to game a girl for sh*ts and giggles.

I spot HBCutie at the computer labs at uni. Too easy. HBCutie and I have had some convo before, mainly during the times when I wasnt looking to game her. She's a cool girl, a little bigger than I like but she makes up for it by being super cute and nice face, a$$ and tits. all around, about a 6.5-7.

I walk in, bust on her for being a total nerd (she is, which makes her even cuter to me). She works at electronics boutique, for christs sake! :)

At this point in my DJ training, I no longer tend to have routines memorised or run anything not natural, its all natural, inner game. I make ****y/funny jokes, I bust on her a little and just have a good time. I use my standard "I gotta head off now, but we should hang out sometime!" line. She's receptive, we trade numbers, pretty textbook stuff. Then she's all excited and keeps talking and won't let me leave. haha!

A big key to this is that I perceive my value as far superior to hers, and just KNEW that I could have her if i wanted her. This, contrary to what you might expect, makes me a little saddened, since the rush and adrenaline wasnt there. It was clinical, easy and done quickly. I'm in a bit of a slump, so I will lay her if i can.

I message her, we set up coffee for friday morning.


will update as this advances.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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danielzxc

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I use my standard "I gotta head off now, but we should hang out sometime!" line. She's receptive, we trade numbers, pretty textbook stuff. Then she's all excited and keeps talking and won't let me leave. haha!
And what did you say to her in Lebosmartassese? "Hey! Read my lips: I...gotta...head...off...now"? :)

The best ones are when you are feeling confident. Confidence is the key quality here. Then if they're 8s, 9s or even fkkn 10s it doesn't matter.

I message her, we set up coffee for friday morning.
Again with the mornings this cvnt! [Note to non-australians: that line is not offensive in the aussie dialect]

Here you are saying youre in a slump and you wanna lay her and so whaddya do? Initiate a meeting at a time and a place that is as about least conducive to say day lay as you can get -- where the hell do you think you're gonna shag her at 11:00am? Man, this is like being in Canberra and wanting -- badly -- to get to Sydney but starting off walking towards Melbourne. Instead of suggesting a get-together at a time and a place where sex can easily follow, you're making it as hard for yourself as you can. It's almost like you wisht the date DIDN'T lead to sex.
 

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haha, its the only time i have available man, my week is fvcking packed. I won't lay this girl on the first date. I just won't, im sure of that. So its no loss.
 
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