duke007
Master Don Juan
I've always loved those threads with C+F examples to memorise and adjust to fit my own personality. Reading real-life examples instead of theory is what really has boosted my game in the past year. Today my C+F attitude was on fire, and because it's still fresh in my mind I want to share it so others can hopefully learn.
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The tsunami in Asia touched me quite a bit, and because I had no money to give I decided to offer my services in the World Vision call centre. To be honest I wasn't even thinking about chicks. When I told my friends one said, "How come you're volunteering? To meet girls?" My mouth said "No" but my mind thought "Hmmmmmmmm"
Luck had it that I was seated at the back of the room alongside a middle-aged woman with a hoity-toity attitude. She bored me for two hours about her work as a snivelling politician ("I bring up the dirt on the opposing party.....I write letters to the premier about his bad policies blah blah blah"). I support those she was criticising
. The phones were very slow for this time period so it was quite excruciating.
Luckily the supervisor comes up and says we can go for a break. As I get some pizza a very pretty HB8 walks up and takes two bags of lollies. I call her out for being a lolly hog, which makes her laugh and she starts telling me she shouldn't eat anymore because she'll get too hyper to work.
This is the type of girl I like - she was half Asian, had a decent personality, she responded to my c+f personality and came back with jokes of her own. She was fresh out of high school and was heading to my uni next year which added to our rapport. She even made fun of herself: "Because I'm half Asian, I have one drink and it makes me go all rosy cheeked" I told her I'd see her at the end of the shift, but because we had such a good vibe going (everyone went back to their desks and we were still engaged in convo), I should have number closed there and then.
But here is where the fun begins. Seeing her IOIs makes me feel confident - and I return to see two young chicks sitting next to and behind my phone station! PoliticianLady is there wondering why she got kicked off her station....the girl points her to another seat in the next cubicle and I'm thanking my lucky stars!
I recognise these girls from before! They were circulating around the office collecting completed donation forms. I acknowledged them as they passed once and they definitely had time to check me out. I convinced myself that it was no coincidence they chose phones near me and sent away the lady.
This was the key for success. I had to genuinely feel narcissistic. "They so want me", "I'm irresistible" and so on. I'd never be like this with guys or girls I'm not interested in, but I simply shifted into DJ mode when the need arose. It felt seamless...this in my opinion is a critical skill to acquire in your progression from AFC to DJ.
The one next to me was an HB6.5 with an amazing personality. The other was an HB8 tight-bodied Middle Eastern looking girl with a similarly cool personality. They were 22 and 23 respectively and the HB8 was a lawyer. They introed me and everything got off to a relaxed start. We were wearing headsets so I said I felt like a boyband member and got them cracking up. They then started pretending they were ordering fast food:
HB8: Hello, Pizza Hut can I take your order?
HB6.5: Yes, I'll have 1 large BBQ chicken pizza
HB8: Nuh, can't do it
HB6.5: OK make it a Vegetarian
HB8: Sure would you like a DVD with that?
HB6.5: What do you have?
HB8: Chronicles of Rid****?
HB6.5: Nah
HB8: Hellboy?
HB6.5: Nah
HB8: 50 First Dates?
HB6.5: Alright I'll take that
HB8: OK thanks for your order
HB6.5: It better not be longer than 5 minutes or I'll demand a refund!
They were entertaining, it was hilarious. Then HB6.5 started singing the start of ad jingles and myself and HB8 had to complete them with the correct phone number!
Pretty soon my C+F starts.
HB8 says to HB6.5: "Doesn't duke007 look exactly like that Cunningham guy?"
Me: "What Richie Cunningham?....No! I'm more like the Fonz" *cool look*
Girls: "HAAHAHAH"
HB8: "No another guy. It must be the eyes and those eyelashes"
Me: "Ahhh I know, they're so thick and luxurious" *blinking*
HB8: "Haha do you wear mascara?"
Me: "These are all natural. My lashes produce their own mascara!"
Someone calls up HB8 and hangs up on her after she introduced herself. So I say, "They probably thought, oh no not another lawyer" HB8 laughed with that "I can't believe you said that" look. Even HB6.5 was negging her....she said that she was so close to her brother they slept in the same bed once. I said she was a guts for taking two chocolate bars from the container and told HB6.5 "she'd pay" for taking the last soft drink. Even gently kicked the side of HB6.5's chair when she playfully negged me about something.
But there's more. I used "Note to self: don't date this girl" from Duke's CF thread when HB8 said something negative about men. HB6.5 thought that was hilarious. The vibe was so good by now that HB8 kept asking me questions about my hobbies and family. I gave only the briefest answers. A few times they would say giggly in-jokes to each other that didn't make sense. I just shook my head slowly, looked at them funny and said stuff like, "You guys are weird..." They loved it though.
HB6.5 said it was boring filling out forms so I said, "Yeah, but you get to chat with cool guys like me........that'd be why you two came to sit in my cubicle!" The while time I had this ****y expression like I knew they wanted me. It worked a charm.
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The tsunami in Asia touched me quite a bit, and because I had no money to give I decided to offer my services in the World Vision call centre. To be honest I wasn't even thinking about chicks. When I told my friends one said, "How come you're volunteering? To meet girls?" My mouth said "No" but my mind thought "Hmmmmmmmm"
Luck had it that I was seated at the back of the room alongside a middle-aged woman with a hoity-toity attitude. She bored me for two hours about her work as a snivelling politician ("I bring up the dirt on the opposing party.....I write letters to the premier about his bad policies blah blah blah"). I support those she was criticising
. The phones were very slow for this time period so it was quite excruciating.Luckily the supervisor comes up and says we can go for a break. As I get some pizza a very pretty HB8 walks up and takes two bags of lollies. I call her out for being a lolly hog, which makes her laugh and she starts telling me she shouldn't eat anymore because she'll get too hyper to work.
This is the type of girl I like - she was half Asian, had a decent personality, she responded to my c+f personality and came back with jokes of her own. She was fresh out of high school and was heading to my uni next year which added to our rapport. She even made fun of herself: "Because I'm half Asian, I have one drink and it makes me go all rosy cheeked" I told her I'd see her at the end of the shift, but because we had such a good vibe going (everyone went back to their desks and we were still engaged in convo), I should have number closed there and then.
But here is where the fun begins. Seeing her IOIs makes me feel confident - and I return to see two young chicks sitting next to and behind my phone station! PoliticianLady is there wondering why she got kicked off her station....the girl points her to another seat in the next cubicle and I'm thanking my lucky stars!
I recognise these girls from before! They were circulating around the office collecting completed donation forms. I acknowledged them as they passed once and they definitely had time to check me out. I convinced myself that it was no coincidence they chose phones near me and sent away the lady.
This was the key for success. I had to genuinely feel narcissistic. "They so want me", "I'm irresistible" and so on. I'd never be like this with guys or girls I'm not interested in, but I simply shifted into DJ mode when the need arose. It felt seamless...this in my opinion is a critical skill to acquire in your progression from AFC to DJ.
The one next to me was an HB6.5 with an amazing personality. The other was an HB8 tight-bodied Middle Eastern looking girl with a similarly cool personality. They were 22 and 23 respectively and the HB8 was a lawyer
. They introed me and everything got off to a relaxed start. We were wearing headsets so I said I felt like a boyband member and got them cracking up. They then started pretending they were ordering fast food:HB8: Hello, Pizza Hut can I take your order?
HB6.5: Yes, I'll have 1 large BBQ chicken pizza
HB8: Nuh, can't do it
HB6.5: OK make it a Vegetarian
HB8: Sure would you like a DVD with that?
HB6.5: What do you have?
HB8: Chronicles of Rid****?
HB6.5: Nah
HB8: Hellboy?
HB6.5: Nah
HB8: 50 First Dates?
HB6.5: Alright I'll take that
HB8: OK thanks for your order
HB6.5: It better not be longer than 5 minutes or I'll demand a refund!
They were entertaining, it was hilarious. Then HB6.5 started singing the start of ad jingles and myself and HB8 had to complete them with the correct phone number!
Pretty soon my C+F starts.
HB8 says to HB6.5: "Doesn't duke007 look exactly like that Cunningham guy?"
Me: "What Richie Cunningham?....No! I'm more like the Fonz" *cool look*
Girls: "HAAHAHAH"
HB8: "No another guy. It must be the eyes and those eyelashes"
Me: "Ahhh I know, they're so thick and luxurious" *blinking*
HB8: "Haha do you wear mascara?"
Me: "These are all natural. My lashes produce their own mascara!"
Someone calls up HB8 and hangs up on her after she introduced herself. So I say, "They probably thought, oh no not another lawyer" HB8 laughed with that "I can't believe you said that" look. Even HB6.5 was negging her....she said that she was so close to her brother they slept in the same bed once. I said she was a guts for taking two chocolate bars from the container and told HB6.5 "she'd pay" for taking the last soft drink. Even gently kicked the side of HB6.5's chair when she playfully negged me about something.
But there's more. I used "Note to self: don't date this girl" from Duke's CF thread when HB8 said something negative about men. HB6.5 thought that was hilarious. The vibe was so good by now that HB8 kept asking me questions about my hobbies and family. I gave only the briefest answers. A few times they would say giggly in-jokes to each other that didn't make sense. I just shook my head slowly, looked at them funny and said stuff like, "You guys are weird..." They loved it though.
HB6.5 said it was boring filling out forms so I said, "Yeah, but you get to chat with cool guys like me........that'd be why you two came to sit in my cubicle!" The while time I had this ****y expression like I knew they wanted me. It worked a charm.