Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FR: pick up? I think so!

Porky

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Wow. I’ve changed so much since finding this website. Even just a few weeks ago I would have let an opportunity like this slide (in fact, I let several like this slide).

About a week ago, Maggy (about an 8) comes up to me during lunch and starts talking to me. I’m chatting with a couple of her casual friends, and I have the attention of all four girls there. I had met her briefly at a party, but we didn’t talk. I immediately started to get an interest in this girl – she’s smart, very attractive, and has heard nothing but the best about me.

We didn’t talk much for the next few days due to my schedule, but after acting like an AFC and worrying about talking to her on one of my free days I grabbed my balls and went up. The conversation went perfectly, the only problem being that at the height of it a friend of mine came up to chat to me and immediately drove the three girls away. I suppose they don’t like him for some reason.

I apparently piqued her interest, because after school later that day she called my name when I was with a group of my friends, and when I went over to speak to her she literally stopped the conversation she was having with a guy in order to talk to me. This guy was holding her hand and so obviously trying to pick her up. He mirrored my position in order to mock me and stood behind her as if to say “hey, back off man.” I got rid of this c0ckblocker with a joke at the girl’s expense and he left when he realized we’d forgotten about him.

She was initiating kino all over the place, saying things like “oh, I’m so proud of my abs.” I’d neg-hit her about them, then boast about my own muscles, at which point she’d neg me. I left, and the next day she yelled at me from across the hallway during lunch in order to talk again. I left her after a few minutes to join my friends, and didn’t speak with her until the end of the day when she found me after school, gave me a hug good bye (after 2 or 3 conversations over the course of 5 days) and told me to have a nice break. I told her we were going to hang out over break, and she grinned, said yes, and I told her I’d call her.

The only problem I saw with this pick up was that I didn’t actually get her number – granted, we were both heading for our buses to go home, and she may not have realized I would have liked it. I have the directory though. In my opinion all systems are go on this one.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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get the #

She's into you but it's not a close unless you have a # in hand.

It's like when my (since departed) sales guy said, "Well, they really really liked me, but they didn't buy anything." Whoop-dee-f'ing doo, boy. If you want to see the money, close the deal. If you want to taste the honey, #close the deal. You've got maybe one more chance to do it.

For more inspiration, see Billy Joel's "Tell Her About It"

Listen boy
Don't want to see you let a good thing
Slip away

You know I don't like watching
Anybody make the same mistakes
I made

She's a real nice girl
And she's always there for you
But a nice girl wouldn't tell you what you should do

The rest of the lyrics are *****-whipped Hollywood AFC but the first part gets the right message across. Good luck!
 

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Porky, this is not a Field Report or a pick up. This chick is clearly attracted to you but all you've done is talk. Get her # goddamnit.
 
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I think not, dude.

You get off on taling to girls. YEEEHHAAAAAA!!!!!!

Do you want to have sex with her verbally, at school, with friends about? You are totally non aggressive, and you will be an old men before you get laid. You didn't do anything other than come at her calling you like a litle puppy being beckoned by its master. What were you thinking?

Have fun being celibate,
epitome.
 

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My friend, you should have taken her number in the first time you were talking to her. You're the one that ought to lead.

Anyway, she's interested, so I believe it'll be ok -- just don't "take your time" - life's too short, hit the iron while it's still hot. It might get cooler at any given moment.

Good luck :)

Atlantis.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Porky

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I decided I wouldn't come back here until this thing with the girl was resolved. It was a pick up. We got together, but since I have lost interest and I think so has she. That's fine, I went bowling with a girl last weekend and I'm about to see a movie with another one.

In retrospect, perhaps I should have gotten her number - but it wasn't necessary. I still maintain that this was a pick up. I stated my intention, which was to date her, she said that that was fine, and that's all that was needed. I already had her number, so there was no need to go through the formalities of getting it.

I get the impression that most of the guys who responded to this are just regurgitating information that they read in the bible. That's fine, but you have to mold the information stated in the bible to your everyday life and experiences.

I thought you'd at least have had more faith in me, MV ;-)

Finally, epitome of evolution, perhaps you should read and apply a bit more before responding to some of the threads and offering advice. If you think that I'm one to act like a puppy dog and wait for the girls to approach me, you're wrong. There's nothing wrong with letting a girl strike up a conversation with you. After we initially met I spoke to her in order to spike up her interest level, but after that was done I was more than content to let her come to me.

Remember: act like you don't care, and they come crawling to you. You'll start to see this once you apply this mindset.

Edit: I couldn't have gotten her phone number the first time we spoke. She wasn't interested enough, and neither was I. This may be appropriate for a club scene where people are looking to hook up, but I'm in high school - it's a different story here.
 
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In your tale above - you actually c@ck-bocked the other dude!
 

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Yeah. And he tried to c0ckblock me. He just failed is all, and I succeeded.
 
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