"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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everywomanshero

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SO I am bored as fvck Friday night and I didn't want to go out. I looked around online and was talking to 3 women. I had a good feeling about one and she only lived 20 minutes away so..... bullsh1t wth her online off and on for about an hour. I called her while she was walking her dog (husband and daughter were still awak). Mostly fluff talk but I had already planted the seed about her coming out later. I thought she agreed to come over after they went to sleep but turns out she just thought she was supposed to call back after.

Anyway she calls me back and it takes a good 30 minutes on the phone with 15 of those convincing her to come out. I basically just told her it would easier to agree with me than not come out and she agreed. Problem Solved.

Anyway, she won't come in and insists on sitting outside which is funny. We talked for about 30 min, then I initiated handholding, proceeded to a very long makeout session, touching breasts was no problem. She asked me what I wanted like 3x so I finally got the hint she wanted to blow me. SO I told her a BJ and man does she love giving head. She insisted I grab her hair and push her head up and down on my ****. Let me *** in her mouth without spitting. Oddly enough she didn't want oral done on her, said it was too intimate, so I just got her off with fingers.

ANyway, that was my friday night. Persistance can play off, I knew she wanted to get nasty but she just didn't want it to be "easy" so I kept giving her reasons to come out "you need friends" "neither of us can sleep anyway" and my personal favorite "my back is out so I can't do anything tonight".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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everywomanshero

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I have a LTR which has, believe it nor not, improved my game by miles. I now have so many freaking contingencies (time, location, when I can respond, etc) it's just ridiculous. My numbers have slowed down to 2 new ones a month and I rarely ever call them back now unless they just really are into something that interests me, but I am way more selective on personality now than I used to be.

My new goal is a wingwoman to run 3way game with. I have to start qualifying for that! Hope I can post a field report on that soon.
 

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So your cheating on your pregnant girlfriend with a wife and mother?

Awesome. ;)

So many wh0res out there so little time.
 

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"Oddly enough she didn't want oral done on her, said it was too intimate"

LMFAO, she basically gags on your c0ck while you pull her hair and yet thats not considered by her to be intimate but letting you service her is.

Gotta love chick logic.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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