"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FR: Parking lot *******

everywomanshero

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SO I am bored as fvck Friday night and I didn't want to go out. I looked around online and was talking to 3 women. I had a good feeling about one and she only lived 20 minutes away so..... bullsh1t wth her online off and on for about an hour. I called her while she was walking her dog (husband and daughter were still awak). Mostly fluff talk but I had already planted the seed about her coming out later. I thought she agreed to come over after they went to sleep but turns out she just thought she was supposed to call back after.

Anyway she calls me back and it takes a good 30 minutes on the phone with 15 of those convincing her to come out. I basically just told her it would easier to agree with me than not come out and she agreed. Problem Solved.

Anyway, she won't come in and insists on sitting outside which is funny. We talked for about 30 min, then I initiated handholding, proceeded to a very long makeout session, touching breasts was no problem. She asked me what I wanted like 3x so I finally got the hint she wanted to blow me. SO I told her a BJ and man does she love giving head. She insisted I grab her hair and push her head up and down on my ****. Let me *** in her mouth without spitting. Oddly enough she didn't want oral done on her, said it was too intimate, so I just got her off with fingers.

ANyway, that was my friday night. Persistance can play off, I knew she wanted to get nasty but she just didn't want it to be "easy" so I kept giving her reasons to come out "you need friends" "neither of us can sleep anyway" and my personal favorite "my back is out so I can't do anything tonight".
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have a LTR which has, believe it nor not, improved my game by miles. I now have so many freaking contingencies (time, location, when I can respond, etc) it's just ridiculous. My numbers have slowed down to 2 new ones a month and I rarely ever call them back now unless they just really are into something that interests me, but I am way more selective on personality now than I used to be.

My new goal is a wingwoman to run 3way game with. I have to start qualifying for that! Hope I can post a field report on that soon.
 

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So your cheating on your pregnant girlfriend with a wife and mother?

Awesome. ;)

So many wh0res out there so little time.
 

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"Oddly enough she didn't want oral done on her, said it was too intimate"

LMFAO, she basically gags on your c0ck while you pull her hair and yet thats not considered by her to be intimate but letting you service her is.

Gotta love chick logic.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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