"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FR: Orbiters paying my booze!

SandHawk

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I had the most hilarious thing happen to me last night. I hooked up with one of my girls for some booze and fun. I was with a good friend who had some emotional problems so I was cheering her up and having a good convo, so I got called several times where the hell I was.

So, eventually we hooked up, she appeared overly joyous and had a total of 3 orbiters with her. The moment I came in, I received a shot of tequila followed by a beer. To show a bit of decency I paid for a round when 2 other guys went to the toilet together(the f*ck, I thought girls are supposed to do that) and when they came back(like 10 minutes later, I wonder if they had a quicky) they left. So, it was me, her and her orbiter.

He was pretty far gone already and wanted to bounce to a different joint. I never been there, so agreed and regretted it the moment I saw the place. Went inside, she grabs my d*ck, we danced a bit on the dance floor with her grinding her ass into my crotch, followed by some more d*ck groping and a bit of kissing. Orbiter sees us dance and starts buying alcohol. For all of us, and he keeps on buying booze. I had quite some booze last night, and it cost me a total of 5 euros!

I wear earplugs when I go out to bars or clubs. It lowers the music volume to a safe level, filters out a lot of the background noise and makes it easier to hear people speak. So I'm leaning back at the bar, I see him grabbing her arm, pull her towards him, attempts to kiss, she evades and he shouts into her ear "So, what are you gonna do? Are you going home with me or him?". She tells him she's going home alone, he purchases me some more booze, says bye and leaves. We bounced after 5 minutes, took her home and showed her the corners of my bedroom. Epic night!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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kingsam

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aww the poor little clueless jealous AFC!:crackup:
SH this is a good example of when not giving a fu.ck or caring what happens MAKEs you more sucessful!
 

GetOveIT

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You sir are epic, and have a true grasp how things are done.
 
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