"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR: Orbiters paying my booze!

SandHawk

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I had the most hilarious thing happen to me last night. I hooked up with one of my girls for some booze and fun. I was with a good friend who had some emotional problems so I was cheering her up and having a good convo, so I got called several times where the hell I was.

So, eventually we hooked up, she appeared overly joyous and had a total of 3 orbiters with her. The moment I came in, I received a shot of tequila followed by a beer. To show a bit of decency I paid for a round when 2 other guys went to the toilet together(the f*ck, I thought girls are supposed to do that) and when they came back(like 10 minutes later, I wonder if they had a quicky) they left. So, it was me, her and her orbiter.

He was pretty far gone already and wanted to bounce to a different joint. I never been there, so agreed and regretted it the moment I saw the place. Went inside, she grabs my d*ck, we danced a bit on the dance floor with her grinding her ass into my crotch, followed by some more d*ck groping and a bit of kissing. Orbiter sees us dance and starts buying alcohol. For all of us, and he keeps on buying booze. I had quite some booze last night, and it cost me a total of 5 euros!

I wear earplugs when I go out to bars or clubs. It lowers the music volume to a safe level, filters out a lot of the background noise and makes it easier to hear people speak. So I'm leaning back at the bar, I see him grabbing her arm, pull her towards him, attempts to kiss, she evades and he shouts into her ear "So, what are you gonna do? Are you going home with me or him?". She tells him she's going home alone, he purchases me some more booze, says bye and leaves. We bounced after 5 minutes, took her home and showed her the corners of my bedroom. Epic night!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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kingsam

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aww the poor little clueless jealous AFC!:crackup:
SH this is a good example of when not giving a fu.ck or caring what happens MAKEs you more sucessful!
 

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You sir are epic, and have a true grasp how things are done.
 
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