"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR: Orbiter Loses His Sh!t!

wifehunter

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As usual, I was chatting up a Mexican girl HB6, not interested, but just having fun bantering (she was fixing a kids crayon set)...

Apparently, I was talking to someone's girl...he wasn't happy at all.

Orbiters orbit harder if they feel like they are losing.

Guy was leaning into her space, seemly to occupy her. I hope he brushed his teeth today. Because she seemed
uncomfortable. Lolz!!!

Fear of loss, is unnattactive, to everyone! Trying to control the situation, only makes you look like an ass.

I was entertained, to say the least...and left saying "have fun playing with your crayons!" She laughed.:p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Desdinova

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I generally try to avoid women who have orbiters, but when the woman I'm dating has them, I'll look into the relationship between them. Sometimes it's the woman who's the orbiter, and that's the kind of 5hit I won't tolerate. However, orbiters who lose their 5hit are fine in my books. They're the ones who are disqualifying themselves.
 

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I generally try to avoid women who have orbiters, but when the woman I'm dating has them, I'll look into the relationship between them. Sometimes it's the woman who's the orbiter, and that's the kind of 5hit I won't tolerate. However, orbiters who lose their 5hit are fine in my books. They're the ones who are disqualifying themselves.
That whole orbiter thing is a joke and women for collecting them should be cut off internet
 

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I was on a train and a HB8 with a couple dudes sat opposite me. Me and her ended up discussing musical instruments (of which I know absolutely nothing- I was just bull$hitting, having fun and she was lapping it up eagerly despite supposedly being a music student herself) and when I got up to alight at my stop the dude's faces were a treat. They were furious at this stranger who dared to muscle in on their central mass. "Yeah, bye!" one of them snorted as I left.

lol orbiters
 
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