You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
:crackup:ElStud said:You can laugh HandyAndy, but it will not change the fact that you are a chode, who can't approach women. The rest of the post is just people hating even though I got the number, kind of jealous if you ask me. Seriously though, HandyAndy's one of those guys who talks all the crap and gives all the advice, but then when you actually take him out into the field he couldn't do sh*t. Especially since this guy publicly admitted his fear of approaching.
Tell that to Wescott dude. And in the end, I really don't care if you think I'm making up crap, because in the end, the FR's are still real and in the end, I'm still improving.SilverSonnet said:Lol. I'm not taking a side. I'm just gonna sit here and watch you fight over the fvcking internet. Congratz if you got the number, lmao @ you if your lying about it, shows how pathetic you are. And since Im britishI dunno how old a freshman is, but if it's anything less than 16, that's pretty fvcked up.
Anyway, good luck people. And stop with the KJ'ing, it's pathetic.
Freshmen *typically* range from 13-15 years old, I was 16 though because I started school late.Papermoon said:How old are freshmans? Not an American, so I've no idea. Anything under 16 is not cool.![]()
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Omg, you are so right, you have PROOF! Because it is simply physically impossible to make stuff up and post it on the internet, oh the proof. But thats not my point. Now, you CONSTANTLY post FRs about you getting numbers from girls, even though you call them fuzzy and talk about your ex girlfriend.ElStud said:Don't feed who? One of the only guys here who has PROOF of his success? Don't feed the guy who actually goes out? No we need to stop feeding trolls and haters like you, who are probably too scared to go out and do sh*t.
Freshmen are easy? That's a VERY very stupid generalization to make. Freshmen are girls and no Freshmen girl is the same. The simple fact a girl is a Freshmen will not decide whether she's hard or easy to pull. To make that generalization is very idiotic of you. Freshmen girls are no harder or easier than seniors or juniors or even colleges girls. If you think so, then you're probably wrong.LostAndConfused said:Freshmen *typically* range from 13-15 years old, I was 16 though because I started school late.
And while a 4 year difference with a minor is legal (only when your 18 and younger), I don't see why you would want to get their numbers ANYWAYS.
They are easy. and when you step up your game to girls around your age, you'll find them alot harder to get.
I guess the practice is good though, right?
And when will El Stud get in his thick head just because you pull a number doesn't mean your such a success. I could pull numbers from girls at my school who are repulsed by me, if I come with the right angle and with the right game. It doesn't mean shit though.
Yeah, too bad I don't give two sh*ts about whatever experience he has. He's an assh*le, a hater and loves to start arguments out of nothing. The only reason I could think of someone accusing someone else of making "Fake" FR's is for the simple fact, that person is jealous inside.Leave WesCott alone as well, he's more experienced and wise than you could know. So leave it. Just dont.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You are. You think your the sh1t when you pull a (fake) number, you come here are act like a big player but in the end, your right back where you started. And no, your not improving like you said, because you have 1200+ posts and none of your so called "field reports" have been any different from the last.ElStud said:And no, numbers don't mean sh*t and nobodies trying to say they do.
Good post, i never realised stuff like that but it makes sense.WesCottII said:Anyone familiar with psychology would see this is classic displacement and/or projection theory. Displacing your faults onto me "you use tricks. . . women would run away from you. . .you're an arsehole. . .your attitude is awful" - these are your attributes mike, not mine.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
This is all that needs to be said. Nothing more.WesCottII said:I don't have anything to prove to you, I know I can get women, and I don't have to post about it. The fact you're seeking approval from every interaction, and that you get all wound up when anyone disagrees with you says VOLUMES about you, and the truthfullness of your interactions.
Just so you know:
1) A confident man doesn't brag about his achievments. He doesn't need other approval (and don't bullsh!t me, you wouldn't be posting here if you didn't want approval.
2) You're taunts about me being a fake don't bother me. I'm confident in my abilities, and don't need to prove them to anyone. Choose to believe what you wish, I'm secure with myself. Can you say the same?
Anyone familiar with psychology would see this is classic displacement and/or projection theory. Displacing your faults onto me "you use tricks. . . women would run away from you. . .you're an arsehole. . .your attitude is awful" - these are your attributes mike, not mine. I've never used tricks (like you pretending you have an ex-g/f), Women don't run away from me (unlike you: See getting kicked out of A&F, and the dinner lady telling you to leave girls alone because you're creepy) and my attitude isn't awful (You = crying every time someone tells you you're rubbish.)
You like but-sex.WesCottII said:I don't have anything to prove to you, I know I can get women, and I don't have to post about it. The fact you're seeking approval from every interaction, and that you get all wound up when anyone disagrees with you says VOLUMES about you, and the truthfullness of your interactions.
Just so you know:
1) A confident man doesn't brag about his achievments. He doesn't need other approval (and don't bullsh!t me, you wouldn't be posting here if you didn't want approval.
2) You're taunts about me being a fake don't bother me. I'm confident in my abilities, and don't need to prove them to anyone. Choose to believe what you wish, I'm secure with myself. Can you say the same?
Anyone familiar with psychology would see this is classic displacement and/or projection theory. Displacing your faults onto me "you use tricks. . . women would run away from you. . .you're an arsehole. . .your attitude is awful" - these are your attributes mike, not mine. I've never used tricks (like you pretending you have an ex-g/f), Women don't run away from me (unlike you: See getting kicked out of A&F, and the dinner lady telling you to leave girls alone because you're creepy) and my attitude isn't awful (You = crying every time someone tells you you're rubbish.)
First of all I have no need to post all my interactions with the female species, also I have a GF right now. ElStud doesnt listen to anyone, it doesnt fvcking matter if I am nice or mean, he is a plain D!CK! Accept it, theres no hope for him.MacAvoy said:In Motion, the same thing could be said for you. Where are your date reports or LR's? I think the pot is calling the kettle black.
Can you tell me how your comments improve the website and the mindset of its posters please because I don't see anything from it? If you don't like someone, then ignore them, your negativity and everyone else's is whats bringing down the site.
The point that I'm tryin to make gentlemen is that cutting this kid down isn't going to help him. My mom taught me that its better to bake with sugar than salt. If you see some holes in his game, be a DJ and point out in a productive way how he can improve his game.
You are suppose to be older, more mature men, why act like children cutting each other down? Be a DJ, lead by example, not by showing how cool you are fighting on the internet. (Read signature)
OK we can agree to disagree, from my personal experience, freshmen girls look up to their upperclassmen, and it naturally makes pickup easier. And I couldn't give two sh*ts if you call me idiotic or not, you haven't backed up your point anyways. :crackup:ElStud said:Freshmen are easy? That's a VERY very stupid generalization to make. Freshmen are girls and no Freshmen girl is the same. The simple fact a girl is a Freshmen will not decide whether she's hard or easy to pull. To make that generalization is very idiotic of you. Freshmen girls are no harder or easier than seniors or juniors or even colleges girls. If you think so, then you're probably wrong.
Why get their numbers? Practice. And no, numbers don't mean sh*t and nobodies trying to say they do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.