"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR: New Years Vegas

psychgrad

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This was at the club PURE.

2 set: HB 7 and 5

Me: let me ask you a quick question, I have to go meet my friends.
HBs:eek:k
ME: Would you date a guy that stayed in contact with his ex GF?
ME: I told the HB5 to give me her hands and I needed to borrow her for a sec and I moved her away from the wall, So now I was leaning against the wall and they were both facing me, it looked like they were gaming me(credit:mystery). I told her that I stole her spot but to stay close.
HBs:they laughed; No, beacause he should not be friends with his ex
ME: HAve you guys stayed friends with exs?
HB: yes
Me: So, you guys are insecure?

From here it, we just started talking adn dancing, I led the HB7 to the dance floor and escalated KINO, Then I touched her chin and tried to kiss her, she stopped last minute and said that I am a good girl and she does not kiss in public.

(my mistake was not isolating her, but I had no wing and I know she was not going to leaver her friend).
So, I pointed to my cheek and she gave me a kiss.

I wanted to isolate her and get her to the *****cat doll lounge, but this is when my friend informed me that my other friend wasd out of the club vomiting. So I did not have the chance. She was from detroit so I did not bother getting any info.

I also went into another 2 set prior to my friend vomiting with the same out come.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maestro Monk

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Good effort..I posted a clubbing field report back in October about dancing with a two set. One thing you might want to try for next time is including both girls..your chance of success for the better looking one will become higher. Or, if gaming the 7 doesn't work, you can always switch strategies and game the 5 instead, making the 7 jealous. ;)
As for asking for the kiss on the cheek..I would say that is a no-go..a don juan shouldn't have to *ask* for affection. Girls should *want* to show it, and you've got to show them that you are 'the man'.
 
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