"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FR: New Years Vegas

psychgrad

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This was at the club PURE.

2 set: HB 7 and 5

Me: let me ask you a quick question, I have to go meet my friends.
HBs:eek:k
ME: Would you date a guy that stayed in contact with his ex GF?
ME: I told the HB5 to give me her hands and I needed to borrow her for a sec and I moved her away from the wall, So now I was leaning against the wall and they were both facing me, it looked like they were gaming me(credit:mystery). I told her that I stole her spot but to stay close.
HBs:they laughed; No, beacause he should not be friends with his ex
ME: HAve you guys stayed friends with exs?
HB: yes
Me: So, you guys are insecure?

From here it, we just started talking adn dancing, I led the HB7 to the dance floor and escalated KINO, Then I touched her chin and tried to kiss her, she stopped last minute and said that I am a good girl and she does not kiss in public.

(my mistake was not isolating her, but I had no wing and I know she was not going to leaver her friend).
So, I pointed to my cheek and she gave me a kiss.

I wanted to isolate her and get her to the *****cat doll lounge, but this is when my friend informed me that my other friend wasd out of the club vomiting. So I did not have the chance. She was from detroit so I did not bother getting any info.

I also went into another 2 set prior to my friend vomiting with the same out come.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maestro Monk

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Good effort..I posted a clubbing field report back in October about dancing with a two set. One thing you might want to try for next time is including both girls..your chance of success for the better looking one will become higher. Or, if gaming the 7 doesn't work, you can always switch strategies and game the 5 instead, making the 7 jealous. ;)
As for asking for the kiss on the cheek..I would say that is a no-go..a don juan shouldn't have to *ask* for affection. Girls should *want* to show it, and you've got to show them that you are 'the man'.
 
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