"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FR: New Years Pimpin

oakraiderz2

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So with last night being new years and all i was hoping to get some action...at least a kiss at midnight. Some friends and I went to a bar to watch our friends band play. While we were standing in line i saw two girls that were inside checking me out. Right then i knew it was on. I was inside for no more than 2 min before them approached me.(yea *****es, thats how i ****in roll :D). Anyway, i talked to them for a little bit and then went and asked this kid if he knew her name(i forgot cause once again, thats how i roll). He didnt tell me, but he did tell me that himself and this other kid were trying to get her and that the other kid had her. I chuckled to myself and told him that I just walked in and shes already mine. So i went back to her and asked her what her name was again...blah blah blah. She proceeded to tell me to find her later. Later came and convienently it was 1 min to midnight and her friend told me i was hot and asked when her friend and I were gonna make out. Sure enough at midnight after the count down. We made out then went our seperate ways. Some time passed and i thought she was about to leave so i asked what she was doing later. She said she was going to a party and asked if i wanted to roll...thats when i got her number. Whenever she would walk by id either give her a hug and we'd hold hands or shed grab my hand or my ass. Unfortunetly when i called her later her phone was off. I left a message and my number which i would NEVER NORMALLY do, but i felt i had nothing to lose. Im comtemplating whether or not i should call her or text her sometime so i can finish what i started...opinions are welcome.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
So with last night being new years and all i was hoping to get some action...at least a kiss at midnight. Some friends and I went to a bar to watch our friends band play. While we were standing in line i saw two girls that were inside checking me out. Right then i knew it was on. I was inside for no more than 2 min before them approached me.(yea *****es, thats how i ****in roll :D). Anyway, i talked to them for a little bit and then went and asked this kid if he knew her name(i forgot cause once again, thats how i roll). He didnt tell me, but he did tell me that himself and this other kid were trying to get her and that the other kid had her. I chuckled to myself and told him that I just walked in and shes already mine. So i went back to her and asked her what her name was again...blah blah blah. She proceeded to tell me to find her later. Later came and convienently it was 1 min to midnight and her friend told me i was hot and asked when her friend and I were gonna make out. Sure enough at midnight after the count down. We made out then went our seperate ways. Some time passed and i thought she was about to leave so i asked what she was doing later. She said she was going to a party and asked if i wanted to roll...thats when i got her number. Whenever she would walk by id either give her a hug and we'd hold hands or shed grab my hand or my ass. Unfortunetly when i called her later her phone was off. I left a message and my number which i would NEVER NORMALLY do, but i felt i had nothing to lose. Im comtemplating whether or not i should call her or text her sometime so i can finish what i started...opinions are welcome.
Shouldn't have left a message...

But no point in thinking about it now. Call her back for sure, but wait at least till Tuesday or Wednesday.
 

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What you should have done was NOT LET THE CHICK LEAVE YOUR SIDE!!! Within reason obviously, I mean you're not gonna follow her like a lost puppy, but keep an eye on her...

You could still work on it from there...
 

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Awesome man, I can relate.

I arrived at one of the biggest parties in SA (Hatfield Square, yeah baby!) about 10 to midnight. I excused myself from my friends and went hunting. I saw a 9 busy standing aside from a crowd of drunk friends, looking rather out of place.

And she was biting her nail. So I came up and told her that if she's hungry she can always take me out for a quick midnight snack. She giggled and we started chatting. in 5 mins I had playful kino, in 8 I was holding her hand. When the countdown started, I went in and kissed her. Heh... awesome feeling... except for the morning after... Aww, my head!

I also think you should call ther girl up sometime later... I know I'm gonna call the one I got!

:D
 

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Haha good stuff Oakz!!

Yea, well in my opinion you called her and left a message, leaving the ball in her court - if shes at all interested then she will call you back, however on this occasion i'd call her if i were you. The reason being this - its damn hard to get a girl worth keeping on New Years Eve and/or Xmas - tis that time of the year were girls get to let their hair down and banish that ASD and LMR from theirs and everyone elses lexicon - its Xmas and New Years - EVERYTHING GOES!!!

I got six makeout closes when the bells hit in my local night club - SIX in 10 minutes!! I wouldnt usually get that in a night!! - ive done 3 before - but the reason i got 6 is because EVERYTHING GOES - girls get to live out all their romantic fantasies on New Years and Xmas because everyone else knows that its all about having fun -their not slvts for kissing you - and even fvcking you, because its New Years!!!

Once again - i would Text the girl the day after you got the number to let her know that your not just a club guy - thats the last thing you want, texting the day after shows her your interested but at the same time doesnt show the neediness of a phone call -which girls view as being more personal, then call her the day after the text to set up a Day2.

Good luck mate

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When i left my number i didnt really expect her to call me back. My area code isnt one people recognize so no one ever answers. I was thinking she would put my number in her phone so that whenever i called or texted her she would know who it was. What should i text her? Texting isnt my strong point, no voice and tone makes it hard for me and my crazy personality.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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