"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FR: My Friday Night

NewMan

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It's been a while - but time for a field report.

Went to my local bar Friday night with a couple of buddies.

SOP - per usual.

Initially there 3 of us - sitting at the bar in our usual corner position. we like this position, since there's a lot of traffic - people (i.e. women) coming up ordering drinks - and there's a couple extra seats initially.

Slow start to the night - but a couple women show up and order some drinks - not bad looking, but a couple years past their prime. one has a cracking bod - looks like she had a (.)(.) lift..... nice. The other one - nice face - a little on the porky side....

Anyway we open the conversation - they have driven about 15 miles to get there - the pretty face one drove and is not drinking - although she does eventually have a beer.

I'm telling them about some of the "special" drinks that they have there - and we are generally shootign the sh#t.

Anyway - a bunch of older guys show up - and they are trying to open these girls - but the girls are having nothing of it - the girls make some comments about trying to hard - and a while later some of their GF's show up - and they move further down the bar where there is more space...

through out the night - pretty face was looking over gestering to me about the music - she had put some music on the j-box early on (it's a cool one thats hooked to the internet) - and I had given her a hard time because she put some country on. So she would come over - I'd pull her leg and give her a hard time etc. - So that how the rest of the night went.

Now, they were fun girls, but not really my type - so I was just having some harmless fun.

Time to leave the bar - only myself and 1 friend was left - so we ask the B-tender to call us a cab - which he does - and we walk outside to wait.

Just so happens that the girsl were leaving - So P-face comes outside with her friends - and and she's got her car keys out, so I say - "hey, why don't you give us a lift home? - we're pretty close by" - to which she argrees - and het car is parked right by the front door. So my friend and I jump in - and she proceed's to drive us home - 2 exits on the freeway.

So we pull up, and I ask her if she wants to grab a drink - and she's showing some resistance - and I press - saying I've got a great balcony, with a view of the city - and I'll need some company since my buddy worked and is going ot go straight to bed.

She agress, and 10 minutes later we're sitting on my balcony off the bedroom....

- not the best looking, but very enthusiastic...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Son of anarchy

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Come on amoka,dont be so rude!
A guy dont necessarly need to fvck a girl to be happy,her giving head to him its fine too. ;)
 

Duffdog

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Son of anarchy said:
Come on amoka,dont be so rude!
A guy dont necessarly need to fvck a girl to be happy,her giving head to him its fine too. ;)
Getting head is fine. Especially if you are so surprised that you pulled this hot girl and she agreed to come home with you that you can't rise to the occasion. Like I did last week...
 

NewMan

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Yes, Sex was had, which is why I wrote:

not the best looking, but very enthusiastic...
What was lost in a tight Bod, was made up for in enthusiasm......
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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