“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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FR: My first American girl

BeTheChange

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TL DR My first American girl. Girls "travelling" alone or on holiday are easy mode.


Was on my first tinder date of the night at 8:30pm with a HB6. She looked much better in pictures...made an excuse to close early to meet my second date for the night, a cute HB8 Spanish chick at salsa around 10:30pm. Enroute I get a text via Tinder from an American girl visiting London that I'd been chatting to. She's free tonight. I figure I can see this Spanish girl another time (who's out with friends anyway btw). Plus flaking on her is DHV.

Meet the American girl instead. HB9. Serious. Italian American, brunette, about 5'7, from New Jersey, lives in Penslyvania and a feminist. We grab a drink, then I take her to a shisha bar (think you guys call it Hookah). I offer to take her back to her place (which is far). She says I dont need to so I say how about we grab a few drinks at my place instead. She is keen. We get an uber back there and do the dirty. The end.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It's never a boring night with double- or triple- headers, heh.

Italian from Jersey, did she have the "Joysey" accent. Most of my gfs in my 20s were first-generation American Italians who made great gfs, as their families are strictly patriarchal, and men are given significant deference.

I predominantly date Italian/Eastern European/Russian girls (non-money hungry type), first generation or recently immigrated. I find them to be the hottest and most compatible women.
 

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We went out together last night too. Was planning to take her to a spot where a few of my friends had booked a table with bottle service but she hadn't packed smart shoes and the venue has a strict dress code.

Instead we went clubbing elsewhere. Took her back to my place and we had fun for a good few hours. She went straight from my flat to her place to pack and then direct to the airport, no sleep. I didn't go to bed until 7 am.

T'was a good two nights. She really enjoyed herself. Wanted to add me on facebook and ask that I keep in touch. Unless she gets a boyfriend I can see her being a solid link if I'm ever travelling to the East coast of the US, just because as a stranger in a foreign land you automatically have that ephemeral status and a more pronounced sense of mystery. Was thinking of hitting NYC some time in the Autumn so we will see what the future brings.
 
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