"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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FR: My first American girl

BeTheChange

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TL DR My first American girl. Girls "travelling" alone or on holiday are easy mode.


Was on my first tinder date of the night at 8:30pm with a HB6. She looked much better in pictures...made an excuse to close early to meet my second date for the night, a cute HB8 Spanish chick at salsa around 10:30pm. Enroute I get a text via Tinder from an American girl visiting London that I'd been chatting to. She's free tonight. I figure I can see this Spanish girl another time (who's out with friends anyway btw). Plus flaking on her is DHV.

Meet the American girl instead. HB9. Serious. Italian American, brunette, about 5'7, from New Jersey, lives in Penslyvania and a feminist. We grab a drink, then I take her to a shisha bar (think you guys call it Hookah). I offer to take her back to her place (which is far). She says I dont need to so I say how about we grab a few drinks at my place instead. She is keen. We get an uber back there and do the dirty. The end.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's never a boring night with double- or triple- headers, heh.

Italian from Jersey, did she have the "Joysey" accent. Most of my gfs in my 20s were first-generation American Italians who made great gfs, as their families are strictly patriarchal, and men are given significant deference.

I predominantly date Italian/Eastern European/Russian girls (non-money hungry type), first generation or recently immigrated. I find them to be the hottest and most compatible women.
 

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We went out together last night too. Was planning to take her to a spot where a few of my friends had booked a table with bottle service but she hadn't packed smart shoes and the venue has a strict dress code.

Instead we went clubbing elsewhere. Took her back to my place and we had fun for a good few hours. She went straight from my flat to her place to pack and then direct to the airport, no sleep. I didn't go to bed until 7 am.

T'was a good two nights. She really enjoyed herself. Wanted to add me on facebook and ask that I keep in touch. Unless she gets a boyfriend I can see her being a solid link if I'm ever travelling to the East coast of the US, just because as a stranger in a foreign land you automatically have that ephemeral status and a more pronounced sense of mystery. Was thinking of hitting NYC some time in the Autumn so we will see what the future brings.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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