"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FR: Money approach today and # close

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I had a class today on the main campus so was scoping out the hotties. I woke up pretty late, so didn't have a lot of time before classes to walk around.

I spotted a HB8 smoking outside.

(New smoking law - you have to be 25 feet away from the building or you can get a ticket I guess - I don't smoke, fwi.)

ME: That doesn't look like 25 feet to me..
HB8: But, it's freezing out!
ME: You're wearing like 8 layers.. How are you cold?
ME: Let me see your hands.. I bet they are not even red.
HB8: Shows me her hand.. (I hold it)
ME: Okay, maybe you're cold. I'm stand, whats your name?
HB8: HB8
HB8: Don't you have a class to get too?
ME: Yeah, it started 5 minutes ago, but I thought I would have a little fun with you first. English sucks anyway.. And theres only one good looking girl in the class and I think she is a lesbian.
HB8: *laughs*
ME: I gotta run, but you should give me your phone #.
HB8: She dials my # from her phone

And that was it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dude, u are an an example of a guy using his experience to help develop game with girls

i mean this really hetero, but i love u!

ur doin with alot of geeks dont do - ur getting experience and getting results, i applaud u for that my friend
 
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Ultimate Player said:
dude, u are an an example of a guy using his experience to help develop game with girls

i mean this really hetero, but i love u!

ur doin with alot of geeks dont do - ur getting experience and getting results, i applaud u for that my friend
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ty sir.. the love goes both ways.
 
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Ultimate is right, keep up the good work and posting your success and failures so hopefully others cna get inspired and you can learn from your mistakes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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see, the blunt, subtle hint gives it all

you stayed mysterious, you didnt ask "whats your hobbies like, what do u like to do for fun.. etc" all that sh1t is boring, you went in and out, straight up. kept it short

thats the trick, takes 3 min to get the number, cuz shes either interested or not. guys go over 5 min and doing fluff talking, its good but its much easier and more simple than complex by keeping it short, get in and get out.

good work. you played it smooth.
 
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nice! I liked how you started that convo. It wasn't some stupid line or anything. It just made sense in the situation you found yourself in. good intuition.
 
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