"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I had a class today on the main campus so was scoping out the hotties. I woke up pretty late, so didn't have a lot of time before classes to walk around.

I spotted a HB8 smoking outside.

(New smoking law - you have to be 25 feet away from the building or you can get a ticket I guess - I don't smoke, fwi.)

ME: That doesn't look like 25 feet to me..
HB8: But, it's freezing out!
ME: You're wearing like 8 layers.. How are you cold?
ME: Let me see your hands.. I bet they are not even red.
HB8: Shows me her hand.. (I hold it)
ME: Okay, maybe you're cold. I'm stand, whats your name?
HB8: HB8
HB8: Don't you have a class to get too?
ME: Yeah, it started 5 minutes ago, but I thought I would have a little fun with you first. English sucks anyway.. And theres only one good looking girl in the class and I think she is a lesbian.
HB8: *laughs*
ME: I gotta run, but you should give me your phone #.
HB8: She dials my # from her phone

And that was it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dude, u are an an example of a guy using his experience to help develop game with girls

i mean this really hetero, but i love u!

ur doin with alot of geeks dont do - ur getting experience and getting results, i applaud u for that my friend
 

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Ultimate Player said:
dude, u are an an example of a guy using his experience to help develop game with girls

i mean this really hetero, but i love u!

ur doin with alot of geeks dont do - ur getting experience and getting results, i applaud u for that my friend
ty sir.. the love goes both ways.
 

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Ultimate is right, keep up the good work and posting your success and failures so hopefully others cna get inspired and you can learn from your mistakes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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see, the blunt, subtle hint gives it all

you stayed mysterious, you didnt ask "whats your hobbies like, what do u like to do for fun.. etc" all that sh1t is boring, you went in and out, straight up. kept it short

thats the trick, takes 3 min to get the number, cuz shes either interested or not. guys go over 5 min and doing fluff talking, its good but its much easier and more simple than complex by keeping it short, get in and get out.

good work. you played it smooth.
 

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nice! I liked how you started that convo. It wasn't some stupid line or anything. It just made sense in the situation you found yourself in. good intuition.
 
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