"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR: Mike returns to the mall.

guywhoneedshelp

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I find that a lot of guys approach a guy only if they have met him previously. Even if she was a girl that you took a class with and never spoke to, you'd be surprised at how you can see her in the mall and suddenly she is saying "hey remember me?"

That's why it's great to get out of the house and interact as much as possible. Some girls will be willing to meet new people and others just aren't. Get out there!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Alphamale1821

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i give elstud credit for actually approaching and true practice does make perfect but maybe for you this is you best practice, but just so you know in this phase of practice it sounds like your getting over you AA. You said your immune to rejection which is good(if it's true) Now this is the time for your next phase which is "pushing your comfort level".

You have no AA or fear of rejection so why not actually go for a high grade of girls or for chicks you find attractive and try to move past just talking and actually try to close a chick through sexual escalation. Numbers ain't nothing bro if you throw them away or they are flakes.

Your right in this game and in life in general one should always practice but at the same time one should always be pushing him self to reach that next level. Thus if he doesn't he will simply stay linear and in worse situation start to decline.
 
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