"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FR: Mike returns to the mall.

guywhoneedshelp

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I find that a lot of guys approach a guy only if they have met him previously. Even if she was a girl that you took a class with and never spoke to, you'd be surprised at how you can see her in the mall and suddenly she is saying "hey remember me?"

That's why it's great to get out of the house and interact as much as possible. Some girls will be willing to meet new people and others just aren't. Get out there!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alphamale1821

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i give elstud credit for actually approaching and true practice does make perfect but maybe for you this is you best practice, but just so you know in this phase of practice it sounds like your getting over you AA. You said your immune to rejection which is good(if it's true) Now this is the time for your next phase which is "pushing your comfort level".

You have no AA or fear of rejection so why not actually go for a high grade of girls or for chicks you find attractive and try to move past just talking and actually try to close a chick through sexual escalation. Numbers ain't nothing bro if you throw them away or they are flakes.

Your right in this game and in life in general one should always practice but at the same time one should always be pushing him self to reach that next level. Thus if he doesn't he will simply stay linear and in worse situation start to decline.
 
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