Im sarging solo. I go to first bar. socialize some with a few guys. no girls near me near the bar so i can't open and i can't walk across the room to open cause thats too needy. after a 40 min. i leave to next bar
the second bar is dead so i leave after 10 min.
I go to third bar which is my favorite bar. i social proof myself there. Some guys who i met previous nites open me and we talked. i open about 13-15 guys throughout the nite (half were really cool social guys). I had some great conversations. I had massive social proof BUT I Could not open girls. i made a lot of (postive) comments to girls to get them to talk, but it just did not work. i even got ignored a couple of times. wtf? comments i made "were great song huh, this song is cool" as im moving my head smiling at her giving brief eyecontact (i did not stare) i get no response so i back turn talk to guy next to me. This happened a few times. When they (girls) did respond they were brief in their talking (they did not show enough interest, did not really smile). I even made situationl comments, but did not work. I am a little above average in looks, there were definately some better looking guys than me. These guys did some bad needy appraoching (but they were getting sometimes in conversations with girls) most did not have great game but they were social and good looking. they did get dances some. one or two of these guys got make out.
I had pretty good alpha BL. i was pretty non needy. I was in pretty good state. i talked to a lot of guys, played pool with one guy, then played a game by myself, had one guy asked me to join him to go to another bar, which when we started walking (to the other bar); we saw his friends walking back from the other bar, so we went back to the bar we were already at.
This Guy steve (BAR REGULAR), he does not talk a lot but he pulls girls by going on the dance floor dancing by himself (THE GIRLS will aproach him and dance sometimes) and does not really talk to them that much. He also is able to leave bar with the girls. I can't really use routines because i have used pretty much all of them at these bars i go to.
WTF AM I DOING WRONG. I REALLY WOULD LIKE TO KNOW.
I WOULD REALLY APREECIATE SOME FEEDBACK. CAUSE I DON'T KNOW WHAT IM DOING WRONG. u might want to check out my last couple of posts to learn more about what im doing.
I COULD REALLY USE SOME PUA FEEDBACK.
the second bar is dead so i leave after 10 min.
I go to third bar which is my favorite bar. i social proof myself there. Some guys who i met previous nites open me and we talked. i open about 13-15 guys throughout the nite (half were really cool social guys). I had some great conversations. I had massive social proof BUT I Could not open girls. i made a lot of (postive) comments to girls to get them to talk, but it just did not work. i even got ignored a couple of times. wtf? comments i made "were great song huh, this song is cool" as im moving my head smiling at her giving brief eyecontact (i did not stare) i get no response so i back turn talk to guy next to me. This happened a few times. When they (girls) did respond they were brief in their talking (they did not show enough interest, did not really smile). I even made situationl comments, but did not work. I am a little above average in looks, there were definately some better looking guys than me. These guys did some bad needy appraoching (but they were getting sometimes in conversations with girls) most did not have great game but they were social and good looking. they did get dances some. one or two of these guys got make out.
I had pretty good alpha BL. i was pretty non needy. I was in pretty good state. i talked to a lot of guys, played pool with one guy, then played a game by myself, had one guy asked me to join him to go to another bar, which when we started walking (to the other bar); we saw his friends walking back from the other bar, so we went back to the bar we were already at.
This Guy steve (BAR REGULAR), he does not talk a lot but he pulls girls by going on the dance floor dancing by himself (THE GIRLS will aproach him and dance sometimes) and does not really talk to them that much. He also is able to leave bar with the girls. I can't really use routines because i have used pretty much all of them at these bars i go to.
WTF AM I DOING WRONG. I REALLY WOULD LIKE TO KNOW.
I WOULD REALLY APREECIATE SOME FEEDBACK. CAUSE I DON'T KNOW WHAT IM DOING WRONG. u might want to check out my last couple of posts to learn more about what im doing.
I COULD REALLY USE SOME PUA FEEDBACK.