“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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everywomanshero

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Ok so this chic sounded kind of, ummm, like possible low status material. What did I do? I had her meet me at the library. You can usually find a quiet, non-crowded place in any library. You don't need to buy dinnner, and you don't feel any pressure to drink.

Worked very well. I think a little too well. She was calling me on my cell 10 minutes after I cut the date off.

Good stuff on this "date":

1. She tried to insist she was the prize by telling me stories of guys, including her 4 yr old nephew, saying she's pretty. I countered by pointing out some flows in her social ineptness

2. She bought into all of my stories pretty well. My newfound overwhelming confidence seems to continue working in almost all situations. My grocery store game is still weak, I cannot figure that one out except to hang by magazine racks.

3. I successfully evaded having to kiss her by waiting for when she turned to look at me and blocking with a hug whilst both bodies remained at too far an angle to kiss.
 

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What did you do on your date, just talk? I've number closed chicks in libraries before, but i've never heard of going there for an actual date.
 

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Yep

Yes, I just rehearsed a bunch of canned material for about 2 hours before going. I was trying to hurry home in time to meet this other chic, I ran out of time before I ran out of material.
 

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Yeah a library date is new to me. I've had study-meets with girls, but never a date

I'd prefer to go to a starbucks or something
 

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Material? Improve your game and let it come natural. Just nounce and counter with stories if you want to connect. Or just nounce and let her do all the talking.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by everywomanshero

3. I successfully evaded having to kiss her by waiting for when she turned to look at me and blocking with a hug whilst both bodies remained at too far an angle to kiss.
Why wouldn't you go for the kiss if you felt things went well?
 
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