Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FR: Library Date

everywomanshero

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Ok so this chic sounded kind of, ummm, like possible low status material. What did I do? I had her meet me at the library. You can usually find a quiet, non-crowded place in any library. You don't need to buy dinnner, and you don't feel any pressure to drink.

Worked very well. I think a little too well. She was calling me on my cell 10 minutes after I cut the date off.

Good stuff on this "date":

1. She tried to insist she was the prize by telling me stories of guys, including her 4 yr old nephew, saying she's pretty. I countered by pointing out some flows in her social ineptness

2. She bought into all of my stories pretty well. My newfound overwhelming confidence seems to continue working in almost all situations. My grocery store game is still weak, I cannot figure that one out except to hang by magazine racks.

3. I successfully evaded having to kiss her by waiting for when she turned to look at me and blocking with a hug whilst both bodies remained at too far an angle to kiss.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What did you do on your date, just talk? I've number closed chicks in libraries before, but i've never heard of going there for an actual date.
 

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Yep

Yes, I just rehearsed a bunch of canned material for about 2 hours before going. I was trying to hurry home in time to meet this other chic, I ran out of time before I ran out of material.
 

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Yeah a library date is new to me. I've had study-meets with girls, but never a date

I'd prefer to go to a starbucks or something
 

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Material? Improve your game and let it come natural. Just nounce and counter with stories if you want to connect. Or just nounce and let her do all the talking.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by everywomanshero

3. I successfully evaded having to kiss her by waiting for when she turned to look at me and blocking with a hug whilst both bodies remained at too far an angle to kiss.
Why wouldn't you go for the kiss if you felt things went well?
 
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