“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FR: Last nights party, increasing results

Hughman

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Thought I'd post an FR up before I go for a siesta (got another night out tonight)

So I arrive at a friends party, usual stuff, bit of drinking, some dancing. However, I now use kino where most of my male friends wouldn't dream of doing it unless in a relationship or wasted. And guess what, I got positive results! (I wonder why :D) The host HB9 who is normally really reserved around guys didn't shy away from me and then joined me in some good rave dancing. Plenty of dancing with other girls as well (alas no grinding, few suitable songs and it would have looked out of place)

The girl (HB8) who is currently giving me the most promising signals unfortunately has got back with her jerk boyfriend for the 3rd time now (and I can finally see why she keeps him, even though he's pretty dumb, poor and fugly), however, when I overheard this I simply shook my head lightly and walked away from her (when even 3 months ago I would have been an emotional tampon). For the rest of the night she would insist on grabbing my hand and dancing with me (gave her plenty of twirls and close-body contact)

The moral of the story: kino, not drinking as much as everyone else, rewarding 'good' behaviour and disapproving of 'bad', and refusing to be a tampon.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

yungahdubz

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Where in Birmingham you from? :D
 

Hughman

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Sutton Coldfield, such a 'hole, much prefer to spend my time in the City Centre or Lichfield.
 
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