“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FR: Kiss + number close

sharkbeat

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Alright folks, just came back clubbing. here's a FR report for your amusement. I went clubbing alone and met this girl. let's call her girl K.

Me: (sitting by myself, enjoying the beats)
(Girl K came with her girlfriends, they sat next to me, taking pictures and giggles and stuff)
Me: Hi! I am sharkybear (to girl K)
K: hi I am K!
Me and K: bla bla bla (some conversation, I forgot what)
Me: you like the beat?
K: Yeah!
Me: wanna dance?
K: sure! (talked to her gf that she's going dancing -- good thing they weren't ****blocking)

(dancing, really close kino, spin)

K: let me introduce you to my cousin (apparently one of her gfs was her cousin)
Me: sure!

(her cousin went somewhere, so we went back chilling at the spot with one of her gfs)

(several minutes later, they played my fav song)

Me: OMG! we have to go back!
K: (looking back at one of her gf - let's call her A)
A: go ahead (to K)

(we went back dancing..heavy kino again, and I managed to kiss her this time)

we then went to the other room playing different kind of music (more dancing and kino+kiss got heavier)

closing night, it turns out she's the designated driver. she handed me her number without me asking. Well, I didn't get laid tonight, but I had fun. :up:
 

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Nice job. One of the keys here was her looking over to her friends (cousin?) for approval to keep hanging out with you. You seemed okay, so they allowed it (or maybe they just wanted to make sure the DD had fun too).

What's also good here is that since she was DD and was not drinking a lot, the number close holds more weight than it would for the average wasted club rat.
 

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TheBucketOfTruth said:
Nice job. One of the keys here was her looking over to her friends (cousin?) for approval to keep hanging out with you. You seemed okay, so they allowed it (or maybe they just wanted to make sure the DD had fun too).
Haha yeah. I was expecting they would give me dirty looks.

What's also good here is that since she was DD and was not drinking a lot, the number close holds more weight than it would for the average wasted club rat.
This is true. I just called her back. She said she'd been missing me a hell lot, asking me why I didn't call her. She really was expecting my call, making assumptions why I didn't call her, though it's possible it's bs. We'll see, I'll update the status.
 

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I forgot about this thread. Here's an update:

We met at my place. I showed her around my apt. Since I just got back from work that night, I was feeling icky. I ate while talking to her, then took a shower. She patiently waited for me (yes, at this point, we both knew that we both wanted to fvck, it's just not verbalized *important!*). I got off the shower, she was reading some random stuff on my desk asking me questions about it. I finished brushing my teeth, she was looking at some pictures on the wall, I hugged her from behind, told her about the pictures, then started kissing her, and you know the rest.

There was no resistance. We still meet each other to this day for some small dates between our busy schedule.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Nice job man, Big ups on going alone, i dont think i can do that just yet.
 

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mad props dude for going out alone..
 

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It's a bit intimidating at first because you see people going out with friends and you are just by yourself, but once you are inside, nobody cares really, and as soon as you hit your target, it's all good.
 
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