"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FR: Interactions I had today.

ElStud

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So here's a report of the interactions I've done today.

First interaction:
So I'm talking to this girl named Rebecca in band. This is how it goes

Me: So are you going to the game? I'd watch for those cheerleaders because I hear during 3rd quarter they like take their pom poms and **** and attack people.

Girl: Really?

Me: Yeah.

Girl: That's crazy.

Me: Yeah, I could see you like walking into a dark alley during the game and then those cheerleaders would come out at you and attack you with their poms and poms.

Girl: Yeah. Where are we home or away this week?

Me: Oh, we're home this week.

Girl: Ah.
Second interaction:
Approached this table of girls at lunch.

- It started off pretty bad. Went into the set I started plowing and eventually this oone girl was like "What are you talking about?". Eventually they start asking me questions, but it goes sort of down from there.

- Somewhere along the line I talk to this one girl who sits there. Doesn't go that well, although she seemed interested at first, but didn't go well.

- Blah, blah, stuff happens. Eventually I'm talking to this freshman guy and somewhere along the lines the girls become interested, I even see one girl trying to ask me something while I'm talking to him.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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WesCottII

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ElStud, I'd suggest learning to Callibrate.
 

ElStud

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WesCottII said:
ElStud, I'd suggest learning to Callibrate.
Huh?

And added the second interaction.
 
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