"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR: Interactions I had today.

ElStud

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So here's a report of the interactions I've done today.

First interaction:
So I'm talking to this girl named Rebecca in band. This is how it goes

Me: So are you going to the game? I'd watch for those cheerleaders because I hear during 3rd quarter they like take their pom poms and **** and attack people.

Girl: Really?

Me: Yeah.

Girl: That's crazy.

Me: Yeah, I could see you like walking into a dark alley during the game and then those cheerleaders would come out at you and attack you with their poms and poms.

Girl: Yeah. Where are we home or away this week?

Me: Oh, we're home this week.

Girl: Ah.
Second interaction:
Approached this table of girls at lunch.

- It started off pretty bad. Went into the set I started plowing and eventually this oone girl was like "What are you talking about?". Eventually they start asking me questions, but it goes sort of down from there.

- Somewhere along the line I talk to this one girl who sits there. Doesn't go that well, although she seemed interested at first, but didn't go well.

- Blah, blah, stuff happens. Eventually I'm talking to this freshman guy and somewhere along the lines the girls become interested, I even see one girl trying to ask me something while I'm talking to him.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WesCottII

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ElStud, I'd suggest learning to Callibrate.
 

ElStud

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WesCottII said:
ElStud, I'd suggest learning to Callibrate.
Huh?

And added the second interaction.
 
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