"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FR: I won, she lost, game over.

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at first i thought it was kinda mean to just use a girl like that then drop her for no reason with no explanation. but then i read the other thread where she lied to you to blow you off first and felt like she deserved the treatment.

maybe you should just remind her about her blowing you off in the beginning so she connects the dots that guys don't like that ****. who knows, maybe she'll learn a lesson, she'd get the punishment either way.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BackInTheGame78 said:
This week has kind of sucked for me as far as being able to get out and do things, but I have another date lined up on Thursday with an older woman....45 but she looks really good in her pics...we'll see where this one goes. I'm sensing high IL here as things have been really easy with her, even though its taken a few weeks for our schedules to line up to meet.
Well, Thursday date flaked out on me with some long 5 page text about having to work and not being able to make it...

I responded: "Lol, whatever."

She didn't like it, so I told her go blow smoke up someone else's ass and that I'm not into flaky women so go pull that bullsh!t with someone else.

She liked that even less. Ah well, fvck her.

Working on filling the time slot, weighing my options at this point...
 

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And these online whvres wonder why I double-book. They create the market they loathe upon themselves.
 

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i mildly joked around with one today about how orcas eat great white sharks (shes a shark fanatic, weirdo) and if she wanted to be a great white while i was an orca. this chick literally went from skyhigh IL to NC. her closing statement was along the lines of she cant believe id offend her with such a sexual comment or something lol.

a lot of girls on there are just plain weird.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alexandar said:
i mildly joked around with one today about how orcas eat great white sharks (shes a shark fanatic, weirdo) and if she wanted to be a great white while i was an orca. this chick literally went from skyhigh IL to NC. her closing statement was along the lines of she cant believe id offend her with such a sexual comment or something lol.

a lot of girls on there are just plain weird.
your a dumy
 

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Call me a skeptic, but this story just sounds too outlandish to be true. Of course none of us can confirm nor deny this occurred so it very well could be.

A chick you never met before, who's a solid 7, becomes desperate to meet you because you expressed anger at her telling you she was busy (which the majority of men do). She then meets up with you, buys you a drink and swallows your *** in a car simply because you told her to.

To me, this outcome says more about her than your actions (if true).

Parts of this story can be good motivation I guess, but as a whole from start to finish it doesn't pass the smell test. I still wouldn't react this way to a flake.
 

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G_Govan said:
Call me a skeptic, but this story just sounds too outlandish to be true. Of course none of us can confirm nor deny this occurred so it very well could be.

A chick you never met before, who's a solid 7, becomes desperate to meet you because you expressed anger at her telling you she was busy (which the majority of men do). She then meets up with you, buys you a drink and swallows your *** in a car simply because you told her to.

To me, this outcome says more about her than your actions (if true).

Parts of this story can be good motivation I guess, but as a whole from start to finish it doesn't pass the smell test. I still wouldn't react this way to a flake.
he didn't react with anger, that'd be cursing her out in all caps. he merely called her out on lying.

and the story makes sense if you think that she was trying to place him on the backburner but he was important enough that she didn't wanna lose him, so when he was gonna walk she scrambled not to lose him.
 

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Suspens said:
He did great, as stated earlier.

However, the swallowing part and "revenge for our fallen brothers" mentality was where it went wrong.
What actually was WRONG ? Did some animals were hurt in the process or what ? She enjoyed it.He dominated her and domination makes weak men scared.
 

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Can you imagine now if the girl ran into some site like SS and tell about what happened? Her story must be really painful to hear lol. Just like you OP the reason you or we wind up here is to change people like you and i or even her for this not going to happen again in the future.. Its really contradict with the state of becoming a true DJ and far from integrity.. Let alone dominance. But anyway hats off to you..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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