"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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[FR] I want to fυck you

Greasy Pig

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I've been in the situation before and I admit I've been a bit taken aback when some slore just blurts out she wants to fvck.
In my experience, a woman who says that after you make out with her, really is DTF.
If she says it before she's even made out with you, it's usually just an AW bvllsht test to see how you'll react.
In the past, when a slvt has said that before I'd even made out with her, I also would make an excuse to leave because I figured that hanging around her and trying to bang her, could come off as desperate.
If a chick says that, at least go for the makeout ASAP to gauge her DTF-ness.

Also, as a point of reference: He who chases two rabbits, will end up with none.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm a scholar of bold game and escalation, but that would be taking the bait. She gets the kiss and possible make out with validation that I wanted to fυck her. It would be easier for her to reject me at the end of the night because she got the ego boost she wanted. When I denied her plea for validation, she went cold and revealed she wasn't DTF in the first place. As casaanova mentioned, a woman who wants to fυck you will find a way to fυck you.
 

Masculinity

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betheman said:
and neither do you
Notice how I said "No one really knows what would have happened." If OP himself--who was in the middle of the situation, doesn't know what would have happened--it is absurd to think I would know. And because it's all mere speculation, I do not see the point in discussing it over and over. You guys can, though. But personally, I would just move on.

Greasy Pig said:
Also, as a point of reference: He who chases two rabbits, will end up with none.
I second this ^
 

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I think BDJ and the rest of the guys both have some truth to it. I think BDJ played it well, but i also think the girl was probably jealous and didn't want to be considered sluttier than she already was (telling you she wanted to fvck you). After probably seeing you game another chick and briefly leave her with probably hurt her ego. Chicks want a guy that's high in demand, not a guy that is picking chicks left and right proactively.

I think how it started was on the right track, but you should have kept gaming her a bit longer, focusing your attention on her and other people for brief periods, then just asked her to head out with you.
 
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