"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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[FR] I want to fυck you

Greasy Pig

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I've been in the situation before and I admit I've been a bit taken aback when some slore just blurts out she wants to fvck.
In my experience, a woman who says that after you make out with her, really is DTF.
If she says it before she's even made out with you, it's usually just an AW bvllsht test to see how you'll react.
In the past, when a slvt has said that before I'd even made out with her, I also would make an excuse to leave because I figured that hanging around her and trying to bang her, could come off as desperate.
If a chick says that, at least go for the makeout ASAP to gauge her DTF-ness.

Also, as a point of reference: He who chases two rabbits, will end up with none.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm a scholar of bold game and escalation, but that would be taking the bait. She gets the kiss and possible make out with validation that I wanted to fυck her. It would be easier for her to reject me at the end of the night because she got the ego boost she wanted. When I denied her plea for validation, she went cold and revealed she wasn't DTF in the first place. As casaanova mentioned, a woman who wants to fυck you will find a way to fυck you.
 

Masculinity

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betheman said:
and neither do you
Notice how I said "No one really knows what would have happened." If OP himself--who was in the middle of the situation, doesn't know what would have happened--it is absurd to think I would know. And because it's all mere speculation, I do not see the point in discussing it over and over. You guys can, though. But personally, I would just move on.

Greasy Pig said:
Also, as a point of reference: He who chases two rabbits, will end up with none.
I second this ^
 

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I think BDJ and the rest of the guys both have some truth to it. I think BDJ played it well, but i also think the girl was probably jealous and didn't want to be considered sluttier than she already was (telling you she wanted to fvck you). After probably seeing you game another chick and briefly leave her with probably hurt her ego. Chicks want a guy that's high in demand, not a guy that is picking chicks left and right proactively.

I think how it started was on the right track, but you should have kept gaming her a bit longer, focusing your attention on her and other people for brief periods, then just asked her to head out with you.
 
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