"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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[FR] I want to fυck you

Greasy Pig

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I've been in the situation before and I admit I've been a bit taken aback when some slore just blurts out she wants to fvck.
In my experience, a woman who says that after you make out with her, really is DTF.
If she says it before she's even made out with you, it's usually just an AW bvllsht test to see how you'll react.
In the past, when a slvt has said that before I'd even made out with her, I also would make an excuse to leave because I figured that hanging around her and trying to bang her, could come off as desperate.
If a chick says that, at least go for the makeout ASAP to gauge her DTF-ness.

Also, as a point of reference: He who chases two rabbits, will end up with none.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm a scholar of bold game and escalation, but that would be taking the bait. She gets the kiss and possible make out with validation that I wanted to fυck her. It would be easier for her to reject me at the end of the night because she got the ego boost she wanted. When I denied her plea for validation, she went cold and revealed she wasn't DTF in the first place. As casaanova mentioned, a woman who wants to fυck you will find a way to fυck you.
 

Masculinity

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betheman said:
and neither do you
Notice how I said "No one really knows what would have happened." If OP himself--who was in the middle of the situation, doesn't know what would have happened--it is absurd to think I would know. And because it's all mere speculation, I do not see the point in discussing it over and over. You guys can, though. But personally, I would just move on.

Greasy Pig said:
Also, as a point of reference: He who chases two rabbits, will end up with none.
I second this ^
 

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I think BDJ and the rest of the guys both have some truth to it. I think BDJ played it well, but i also think the girl was probably jealous and didn't want to be considered sluttier than she already was (telling you she wanted to fvck you). After probably seeing you game another chick and briefly leave her with probably hurt her ego. Chicks want a guy that's high in demand, not a guy that is picking chicks left and right proactively.

I think how it started was on the right track, but you should have kept gaming her a bit longer, focusing your attention on her and other people for brief periods, then just asked her to head out with you.
 
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