"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR: I think Im gunna go for the kill...TOMORROW

PumpingIron13

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Aight so Ive been talking lately about this religious chick I've been kinda into. Things are looking well. I hung out with her and her friend a couple of weeks ago and was smooth and what not. I talked to her on aim and once or twice on the phone. Our aim convos are gold, I know its not as good as the real thing but she goes to a different school so it helps. Anyways she went to london for a week and I think her friend was digging me so I gave her friend who was also very cute a shot but decided I wasnt really too into her so passed her on to my buddy. Anways my girl got back from her week long vacation and left me this commont on myspace:

"i want to just say that i loved your slideshow espesially with that music . it blended very well:] and i cant wait till you can show me the world. and i miss you. and when you me and courtney hangiout next we will get bigger and badder tattoos :]"

I was smooth about it, I told her I was glad to have her back but didnt say ohhh i missed you soo much tooo! or anything like that. We had another really good convo when we got back, I sent her some music of mine and she told me I was a cutie and I have her a compliment or two indicating my interest, I negged her a bit on some goofy pics she sent me. Its been well. The next morning after the convo i woke up this this comment on my myspace:

"i love you. "

Now shes sort of a goofy type of girl but Ive seen how she talks to other guys and she hasnt done that at all. I kept my cool though and considered it a test so i just commented back the Han Solo way...i just said: "I know. 8)

Anyways she went to camp this weekend...:nervous: so we cant chill until monday (tomorrow) with my friend and her friend who also like each other. Before she left I told her I hope your ready for monday its gunna be a lot of fun so dont wear yourself out at camp. My plan is bowling, a park for maybe a picnic, and then a movie at my friends house.

Im gunna apply as much kino as I can and go for the kiss by the end of the night. Im feeling shes given me alot of green lights. the thing is do you guys think I should go for it at the end of the night or when im at the park cuz I was thinking of taking my guitar and surprising her by playing a song she likes and the last line says something about a kiss, I thought that would be a good way cuz shed remember it,if i fail though the rest of the night would be akward.

Ideas suggestions?Anyone know some cool kino tricks besides the usual? Especially ones pertaining to a park and bowling, or better ideas for the kiss?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I just talked to a good girlfriend and she thought I had a good plan but she also told me not to worry about planning the kiss because the moment just comes and me n her will know that moment. Ive never been there so I dont get it and was wondering if someone could explain this to me a little better?
 

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If you feel/see red flags when you kino her, don't push it. I think thats what your girlfriend meant.
 
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