I honestly don't think this can even count as a field report. But I'll still tell you guys what happened.
Let me start off by saying it was kind of a crap night. I was going to a bday celebration for a girl I know. We were all meeting at a bar for it. I get there first, check the place out (it's dead). Grab a beer and sit at the bar. About 10-15 mins later (or 1 beer) I see 2 people over my shoulder. It's the bday girl and her bf. I come up behind them and say hi. We wait for a couple other people that came with them to come in. Now there's about 6-7 of us. We grab a booth and order a few drinks.
We shooting the ****. I'm being pretty social, everyone's paying attention to what I'm saying. A little while later I see a girl I recognize (figure she's there for the bday celebration). I go check out that it's her, we talk for a second and I bring her and a couple other girls back to the booth. This was the peak of the night for me. After this everyone stopped paying any attention to me. I'd try to talk to any girl (even the ones in our party) and they'd look at me and turn their back to me (didn't matter what I said).
Eventually the girl I like gets there with a few other people I know. I go say hi, and try to talk to her. She doesn't seem all that interested in talking to me, and eventually acts like I'm not even there (turning her back to me, not including me in conversations). I ask her to dance, she tells me she doesn't like the song but maybe later. I go off and try and talk to a few other people (both people in my party and random girls). Don't get much attention, mostly ignored (the other 2 single guys in the party talk to me a bit). All the while the girls we're with ignore me and flirt, touch, and talk to the other 2 guys.
I get bored and go outside for some air. See the girl I like out there smoking. I strike up a conversation with her. She starts talking about how her ex bf that who's still living with her tried to crawl into her bed that morning (he broke up with her and is moving). I made a joke, saying that he was probably just trying to get some. She then tells about their history (and how he's broke up with her 2 times before this). We go back in.
I go around and try to talk to a few other girls, just get ignored. Go back to my group, ask the girl I like to dance again. And again she says no. At this point she's not even trying to include me in her conversations with other ppl, no one in my group is. I just stand there, basically a social outcast.
At this point it's about closing time. Without saying anything to anyone I go grab my coat and go outside. Make my call for a cab. While I'm waiting everyone in my group comes outside. One of the guys asks me for directions and says bye. The one guy that drove is asking ppl if they'd like a drive home (he didn't ask me though, even though I was standing right there). No one else says bye to me. My cab comes a minute or two later and I go home.
Now I really never got to talk to the girl I like much, and seeing as I don't have her number I decided to send her one last message on facebook (she added me). I say that I want to take her out and that she should let me know when she's available. I honestly doubt I'll get a positive response (if a response at all) so I'm pretty much calling her a lost cause and moving on. If she contacts me with a positive answer then great, if not then whatever, life goes on.
So yeah, like I said not much of a field report.
Let me start off by saying it was kind of a crap night. I was going to a bday celebration for a girl I know. We were all meeting at a bar for it. I get there first, check the place out (it's dead). Grab a beer and sit at the bar. About 10-15 mins later (or 1 beer) I see 2 people over my shoulder. It's the bday girl and her bf. I come up behind them and say hi. We wait for a couple other people that came with them to come in. Now there's about 6-7 of us. We grab a booth and order a few drinks.
We shooting the ****. I'm being pretty social, everyone's paying attention to what I'm saying. A little while later I see a girl I recognize (figure she's there for the bday celebration). I go check out that it's her, we talk for a second and I bring her and a couple other girls back to the booth. This was the peak of the night for me. After this everyone stopped paying any attention to me. I'd try to talk to any girl (even the ones in our party) and they'd look at me and turn their back to me (didn't matter what I said).
Eventually the girl I like gets there with a few other people I know. I go say hi, and try to talk to her. She doesn't seem all that interested in talking to me, and eventually acts like I'm not even there (turning her back to me, not including me in conversations). I ask her to dance, she tells me she doesn't like the song but maybe later. I go off and try and talk to a few other people (both people in my party and random girls). Don't get much attention, mostly ignored (the other 2 single guys in the party talk to me a bit). All the while the girls we're with ignore me and flirt, touch, and talk to the other 2 guys.
I get bored and go outside for some air. See the girl I like out there smoking. I strike up a conversation with her. She starts talking about how her ex bf that who's still living with her tried to crawl into her bed that morning (he broke up with her and is moving). I made a joke, saying that he was probably just trying to get some. She then tells about their history (and how he's broke up with her 2 times before this). We go back in.
I go around and try to talk to a few other girls, just get ignored. Go back to my group, ask the girl I like to dance again. And again she says no. At this point she's not even trying to include me in her conversations with other ppl, no one in my group is. I just stand there, basically a social outcast.
At this point it's about closing time. Without saying anything to anyone I go grab my coat and go outside. Make my call for a cab. While I'm waiting everyone in my group comes outside. One of the guys asks me for directions and says bye. The one guy that drove is asking ppl if they'd like a drive home (he didn't ask me though, even though I was standing right there). No one else says bye to me. My cab comes a minute or two later and I go home.
Now I really never got to talk to the girl I like much, and seeing as I don't have her number I decided to send her one last message on facebook (she added me). I say that I want to take her out and that she should let me know when she's available. I honestly doubt I'll get a positive response (if a response at all) so I'm pretty much calling her a lost cause and moving on. If she contacts me with a positive answer then great, if not then whatever, life goes on.
So yeah, like I said not much of a field report.
