"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FR: I got my balls back!(my FIELD REPORT Journal)

gimmeyofonenumba

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Alright. I went to hit up a mall in a rich area of the county..MY GOD. Im trying to make the mall my experienced hunting grounds. Like the one I go to any day and leave with a #. My God were they in full force today, as soon as i walked in all i saw were 6's+ be it young chicks,chicks, milfs.


so the 1st REAL approach, I see a girl with an ass of a rating like 7/10. She's walking insanely fast, I catch up to her, and am just walkin at her pace staring to my side at her in a joking way.(She's like a 6.3) She giggles...Boom its on, I make small talk"what u buying"and she asked the same I said "Well i came here to browse, but my feet are hurting me so much from chasing you, I think i need new shoes" She laughed out like crazy. I asked her how old she was, she's 16. Iam 18..turn 19 soon. I said, you think thats a big differnce and she says "OMG, no!"SHe was meeting up with her dad, got the # and said bye.(the close didnt feel really sincere)

Next..I see 2 chicks at ice cream stand, IM TELLING YOU ITS DAMN NEAR IMPOSSIBLE WITH TWO CHICKS unless you have them REALLY LAUGHING/INTERESTED FROM THE BEGHINING. Both of them are like 6's I over heard their convo, jutted in, made um laugh, and wasnt really feeling their interest.

Next...I see my fav. a small girl with a nice big BIG ass and a skinny waist, and big boobs. She's like a 7/10 only problem...with her FVCKIN friend. I follow um into old navy grab 2 shirts walk over to were they are at and say "hey, guys I need your help, which shirt?" both of say the white one IMMEDIATELY, like its something they get asked all the time, right then my target's phone starts ringing, and her friend turns her back to look for something. I said it again, this time she;s still on the phone, and I say it a third time,"which one will make you wanna rip the clothes off me" she giggled and I just walked away. DAMN PHONE...oh well, just wasnt meant to be I guess(what could i have done here)

Next approach...Girl made eye contact walking different directions, follow her into bookstore, she disappears, see her get food and sit down alone, STart talking to her, notice she doesnt speak english very well, and is young, and was VERY SERIOUS/NERVOUS. I asked her what she's eating she said "nothing"

NEXT APPROACH AND THIS IS THE ONE WHERE I GOT MY BALLS BACK!! GOT DAYUMM ITS FEELING GOOD. Iam exiting the mall, looking around in the parking lot, i see from a distance a blonde by herself walking mad fast(my plan was to use the same approach that worked before) THIS CHICK IS NO FVCKIN JOKE. You ever see a girl, that when she walks by any GUY/MAN/WOMAN, their heads turn? I was chasing her down, and through the entire walk way people were turning heads or just nodding, I heard 2 older dudes, 1 said "my heart just stopped" the other replied "ya, only if i was 40 yrs younger" THIS GIRL WAS FVCKIN SMOKIN. Iam EXTRA conservative with my hb ratings. I've never given any chick anything over a 7.5. So far all ive seen is her ass in some low cut shorts, and a backless shirt, she's about 5'9, honestly, she was a 9.5/10 Never seen a chick any hotter. So...now that i made my point, I follow her into the WOMEN'S UNDERWEAR area in MACY's she jetted directly to the area. I was like running to keep up with her.

I see her paying for an item, and there are about 6 other people around me, as I approach I see them all start whispering with to each other. I went up to the chick and touched her elbow and said "Escuse me, I saw you in the parking lot, and I just wanted to say hi" she was so monotone...she said a simple "oh, hi" and looked away, I said the same thing that i said with chick #1, but this time it didnt flow really well,she giggled and looked away again, and stepped forward. I said bye and left...I got REAL nervous towards the end, She wouldnt even help me out and elaborate. DAmn b1tch. No doubt though, by approaching her, I accomplished what probably 100% of the men in that mall feared to do.

Thats it. Feels good as fvck to, I wont be able to Sarge tommorow, so thats about it for my weekend, Ima hit up the mall/school again on monday. Today changed my life, from here on out there is absolutely no excuses..APPROACH APPROACH APPROACH. It will soon become an involuntary action.

Approaches:4
Numbers:1
Action:None
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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GodsGiftToFatBirds

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That sounds like a good session, there's some good approaches in there.

It sounds very similar to my better sarging sessions when I've gone out and got approaching and got myself what i call 'in the zone', in a sort of untra positive approaching mindset. When I'm like this, I find myself with balls of steel, and not worried at all about approaching any girl, even doing some crazy or stupid approaches just for a laugh. It sounds to me like you got yourself 'in the zone'.

What I've found hard though is keeping myself in the zone after the day or sarging session is over. I'd be very interested to hear whether you've managed to keep it going since?
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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ya i know EXACTLY what your talkin about with the zone. IT usually occurs after recognition. Honestly, I did a presentation in school that day, and everyone loved it, telling me all kinds of great things, I really felt great. And every time your in the zone you learn something about it that will help you recall it easier another time. THis time i learned i will do slow/smooth gestures with my hands(ill elaborate if neeeded)

This was friday, Sat. I was busy like a madman. I had 1 oppurtunity for an approach but it was a chick that was smoking..bleh, Sunday and today, Ive had no life whatsoever. Literally 10 hrs strait of work right after 5 hrs of school.

However....Iam going sarging tommorow, back to the mall again, iam promising myself at least 4 approaches. This is my journal...so stay tuned!
 

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You sound like you're putting the principals into action, but be careful about being too aggressive. Some of your stuff sounded like it bordered on harassment.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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Ya, no where else like the mall. Seriously i see more targets at the mall then i do at the clubs. But... I just realized school started today. Player, you ever been to the mall when school is on? i doubt their's any high school chicks there, and any hbs there are prolly too old, but ill shoot anyways.

Im still contemplating if i should call that 16 yr old chick. Her face wasnt that great, (i cant really recall right now) but i would definitely bang her, she had a great body.Think i should call, or just keep it as a souvenir and move on?
 

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--Updated--

8-10-05-Went to a strip mall to get some whey protein. Saw a 8/10 standing outside with someone who looked to be her boss, they were selling purses.
me:"hey what are you selling purses"
her:ya(she got all excited)
me:"oh cause i thought you were just standing her tryina look pretty"
her:"hahhah"
me:"so its your first day on the job huh"
her"no...what made u think that"
me:"i dunno..you dont seem to be that great at selling purses, your not haggling me.hahaa"
-RIGHT THEN HER MANAGER CALLED HER OVER. I think she was too young anyways prolly 16 maybe 17. Iam 19.
-she said bye and waved. i walked away.
 
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