"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Walden

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Okay so I shouldn't be flaming people for posting bullsh!t "what do I do if?" posts when I'm not out DJing myself.

Went to the movies with my mates , on the way back they went to this video store to return a film. Saw an HBHardcore grrl working there (Dikcies , cute calf tattoo) she saw me , liked my vibe and gave me a big smile.

I worked through my mental checklist , thought of an opening , though of a follow up , thought of a c+f way to rip on her, thought of a close...

...and choked.

A standard common or garden choke.
I'm not asking for advice or anything but I figure for the amount of talking I do , when I choke I should own up to it.

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Maybe you should stop thinking and just do. When you're in the presence of a hot chick, the perceived payoff (how much you like her, imagine awesome hot, sweaty, messy sex with her, a sweet relationship with her, etc), will ALWAYS be balanced out with it's polar opposite (being humiliated, her flat out ignoring you, her laughing, her being hit on all the time, her dating hotter guys than you..).

When you approach, see it as nothing more than making sincere conversation with a stranger. You're just TALKING. Something you do, and have done every single day of your life since you were 3. If she doesn't want to pursue anything further with you, then that is her decision, based on her tastes and experiences and perceptions, and it has NOTHING to do with you. Just relax.
 
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For my 300th post...I will offer nothing...other than xblitzx has the approach mentality down perfectly....
 
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Originally posted by Walden
Okay so I shouldn't be flaming people for posting bullsh!t "what do I do if?" posts when I'm not out DJing myself.

Went to the movies with my mates , on the way back they went to this video store to return a film. Saw an HBHardcore grrl working there (Dikcies , cute calf tattoo) she saw me , liked my vibe and gave me a big smile.

I worked through my mental checklist , thought of an opening , though of a follow up , thought of a c+f way to rip on her, thought of a close...

...and choked.

A standard common or garden choke.
I'm not asking for advice or anything but I figure for the amount of talking I do , when I choke I should own up to it.

:cool:
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oh fer pity's sake
 
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